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Unending Love with Scorpio Man
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Sunday, January 6, 2019 - 6:34 pm
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2A2A984A-BD4A-4B8A-ADCA-24644EBD5916.jpegI’m at this crossroad this new year, where I want to be better and let go of anything that does not bring light into my life. Yet, at the same time, when I thought I was able to cut myself off from this Scorpio man (we’ve had an on again, off again thing for 6 years now. I don’t know why, but I feel as though he and I will always somehow be in each of our lives. I think this is a lesson in terms of respecting myself and loving myself and letting go of things not meant for me. Yet, he texted me a photo today of this painting I made and gave to him when we first were going out. He still has it and I’ve totally forgotten that I gave him this. He just moved into his new house and is probably going to place this somewhere. This one gesture really pulls at my heartstrings. I’ve also been having a lot of dreams about him lately for some reason. 

Can anyone please analyze our synastry chart and let me know what is so special about this man that is so hard for me to let go of? 

Thanks! 

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His Pluto is right on your Moon in his eighth house and your Pluto is right on his Sun/Uranus/mc in your fifth house. I think one of those might not mean a ton, but that exchange…ya, theres some cosmic magnetism there. 

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Monday, January 7, 2019 - 7:50 am
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Thanks, Libra Noir! Are those Pluto contacts just karmic or something?

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In addition to Pluto contacts, you have angular contacts which are like glue.  I feel you.  Is there a reason you two arent together?

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Thanks, la sirena! What are angular contacts?  We have our issues and it just doesn’t seem to bode well for a relationship. He took my virginity, so maybe that’s why he holds a special place as opposed to some others. There’s a lot of things about him that makes me feel like he still cares for me to some degree…. even when he’s being an asshole to me. If that makes any sense… Unless I’m just delusional lol. 

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Angles are the ascendant, descensant, midheaven and nadar, so angular contacts mean you have planets on his angles or house cusps.  You have Saturn, the ruler of your 7th on his Asc.  You have Jupiter on his Desc. I can see why you are so bound to him.  Saturn is a planet of commitment and Jupiter is the planet of optimism.

I feel so sorry for you..i have been in your position.  And I was around your age when I started to talk on this forum to try to get answers.  And…the man was a Scorpio Sun conjunct Uranus just like yours.  We had/have Pluto contacts.  This is the kind of thing that feels like no one is going to understand.  Pluto love is like this.  It can hurt a lot.

Have you looked into Horary to try to get answers to your questions?

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😮♥️ OMG, Thank God I have found you, la Sirena!! 🙏🙌🤗 What happened with you and the Scorpio man? Also, what is your sign and placements? 

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Aww, you’re right, it could be providence…God does work in mysterious ways.  What happened….we did not end up together.  He is with someone else, I am with someone else. There was a lesson in it andI am still learning the lesson to this day.  Going through the lesson has been more painful than I can even articulate. I think you really nailed it when you said loving yourself is the lesson in it.  I think Neptune is always looking for a savior, someone to fill the soul longing…but its really only ourselves who can fill it.  As hard as that is to accept or believe.  And youre left wondering how the heck do I even do that? It’s difficult.  You have Neptune on your Desc so you have this yearning for the ideal partner… I understand how it feels.  I have Neptune in aspect to my Venus im Aries and my Sun and Moon in Pisces in the 8th house.  I am here if you need me… and you didnt answer about Horary. I can help you with Horary questions.

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Lol, perhaps! 😉 Why did you both not end up together? What exactly happened between you two? Do you still think about him a lot? Would you wish things have been different? So glad you are here on this forum! ♥️I don’t think I’ve done a horary before lol. Not even sure what that is exactly lol. Can you do one for me? What does it entail? Thanks, girl! 

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Lila, Horary is a branch of astrology in which you can draw up a chart for the exact moment you have a question weighing on your mind and wish to recieve an answer from the universe. Basically, you can do it one of two ways: draw up the chart yourself if you want to be the astrologer and answer your own question, or ask an astrologer a question and they would draw up a chart for you when they have understood your question.

I wish I had given horary a try when I was desperate for answers.  But then again, I don’t know if I would have accepted the truth if someone hit me with it.  Horary is very accurate, especially when you have a burning question… one that weighs heavily on your mind…the kind that keeps you up at night for want of an answer.  I can do this for you if you want to know, and are ready to know what is likely to happen between you two.  It has to be a clear question, preferably with a time frame if its a question about being with him, and the one that you most want to know, like, will we be together within the next year? It could be, does he love me? Let me know….

I’m so sorry but I can’t talk about what exactly happened.  Not a day goes by….. so lets just focus on your story. Lets see what we can do about it.  I’d love to help.  Have you read Liz Greene’s book about Neptune: “The Astrological Neptune and the Quest for Redemption” I think you should check it out, it is the best book on Neptune out there.

 

Oh yeah, and whats more strange is he also had a Virgo Moon and a Leo Mars. And I also want to be clear that it’s neither here nor there for me anymore.  It was a painful event that happened in the past, but I am much stronger now. And I am very focused on living my life with integrity now.  I have had to accept part of my nature that has this tendency to dwell in my romantic yearnings, and let it pass.  Part of the lesson was to find appreciation in the small things in life, to find a purpose outside of romantic love, and to honor my commitments. 

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Horary astrology sounds very interesting and cool. I don’t think I’ve ever done one before etc. Thank you so much, la sirena!! Can you pull a horary for me for the question of: does he love me? 

I wish I could hear about your story, but no worries. 😉 I’ve never read that book before, but I would love to when I get a chance to (if I can find that book). 

Wow, so we had very similar experiences with a similar Scorpio? Did he have any other similar placements? Did he treat you well? How was it painful though? 

I’m glad you were able to gain some lessons from that though. Hopefully, you’re in a better place now. 😊♥️

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First, do you know if hes with someone else? Can you provide some backstory please?

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We’re both single right now, so I don’t know about his situation. Is our backstory crucial or needed for the horary? Thanks!

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Hmm I am not sure then, the Horary shows him really invested in Saturn. Both of his Significators, Sun and Mercury are in the sign Saturn rules and sandwiching Saturn. Saturn is usually a significator for another significant other in romantic horaries, per John Frawley. Your significator is strong and angular in Sag and in the detriment of his significator indicating you are either angry at him or not interested in him as a person which doesnt describe your situation at all.  It doesnt make sense.  This is actually the first horary I have done that wasnt drawn by the owner of the horary.  Maybe I picked the wrong time? There is some debate over what time to choose and the location to choose. I picked the time you sent the question and my location. Maybe I should have chosen the time I read the question and or your location.  Im sorry, I super fail.  I am still willing to try again if you want.

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Thanks so much, girl for pulling the horary! Does the location matter for the horary? And does the horary that you pulled mean that he has someone else he’s interested in or something? 

Can you pull another one? 

Thanks! 

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