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LisLioness
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Unbelievable, right? Well, always expect shocks like this when t. Uranus is in the 1st and conjunct your Rising!

He’s moving to Italy. His husband (I’m really shocked that anyone would take on a bottomless pit of need like him, but YMMV) got him a job over there; the husband is in the Army and stationed there.

He’s leaving in two weeks.

This will take a huge load off the ILs and maybe help him FINALLY grow up.

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Cool, now he’s Italy’s problem. 😎 🇮🇹 

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Monday, May 7, 2018 - 7:17 pm
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Let us know if he gets on the plane

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The first thing I thought before this was confirmed was, is this for real? Then I thought, he better not be back pounding on MIL’s door in six months/a year or two because the husband can’t deal with him any more. Shit’s real now, guy.

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The first thing I thought before this was confirmed was, is this for real? Then I thought, he better not be back pounding on MIL’s door in six months/a year or two because the husband can’t deal with him any more. Shit’s real now, guy.  

Maybe he’ll lose his passport and get stuck there, oops! Can’t avoid Saturn forever….

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WOW.  Unbelievable.

Let’s hope he stays there and changes for the better.

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https://www.military.com/spous…..ouses.html

This is probably the real reason behind his marriage, according to my dad, who was in the service (Scorpio Sun, Cap rising).

Not surprising if you look at his track record, which is “What’s in it for me?” and “How can I get the goodies without working for them, because I’m owed them?”

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eek_gifeek Sorry…. it’s just like Pringles: “You just can’t stop at one.”

Unfortunately, the Military does have a lot of bennies. But…. they aren’t all *Free*. The medical system took care of all the paperwork and scheduling for my then-spouce’s medications and Psychologists appointments. Her meds were also paid for…. so that was something I didn’t fully appreciate at the time.

I bet this guy (the Troublesome kid) will learn the hard way that he really isn’t “First” in the life of his *ahem* Husband.

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I wondered what he was up to.

He is taking his show on the road…..on a global scale.

Poor Italy lol

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eekMama mia!

Hahaha. (Im sorry thats so corny, i couldnt help myself). 

Anyway, geez, I hope it doesn’t end in disaster. But that track record probably doesnt leave much room for hope huh? 

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Thought I’d update. Six months later and he’s still holed up at the ILs’. 🙄 I don’t know what the holdup is, but something ain’t right.

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Whuuuuut……eek_gif

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Wednesday, November 28, 2018 - 11:26 pm
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OMG… Lis is he going to live with them until he is FIFTY?

He needs to GO.

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As long as he plays the “but I have nowhere to go” card, MIL will never get rid of him. 🙄

I have enough to worry about (t. Pluto square Moon and t. Uranus conjunct the ASC), so I refuse to waste time thinking about his crap. He chooses to stay like this, and I choose not to be part of it.

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It’s good to see you, Lis! 

I guess things will never change with that kid  😕

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