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el1sandra
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Libra Noir said
I spent some time with a guy who's mars was opposite my pluto. It was pretty good. The sex I mean. There was a lot of energy between us but no real compatibility. Mainly because he would throw fits every time I wasn't able to drop everything to have sex with him.

I've only been with two men in my life that way (married for 30 years), so very little experience to talk about here, but the second man's Mars opposes my Pluto with a 6 degree orb if that's close enough to count. Actually, the exact opposition point is centered between my Pluto and my Lilith. He did the same thing you describe! Not so much have a fit, but he would accuse me of making things up to avoid sex if on the rare occasion I was actually busy doing something else. Odd. Especially since he is exceedingly attractive and generally seems to have very high self-esteem. This led me to believe there must be a lot of dishonesty going on in his life for him to assume other people are lying to him. I have a very simple honest life and have nothing to lie about, so it was a bit insulting to be accused of lying, especially over something that made no sense to lie about.

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Mars-Pluto is the hottest shit.

Pluto-Venus, too.

But Mars-Pluto.

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I just realized that not only does his Mars oppose my Pluto, but his Venus is conjunct my Pluto, and his Pluto is conjunct my Uranus. I don't know if all that is a good thing or not, but maybe it explains some things. Maybe I should look at my ex-husband's chart and see if all that Pluto stuff was missing from our relationship.

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Hmmm...when I think of the hottest relationships I had, a few aspects come to mind:

His Mars conjunct my Sun in my 5th, and also Venus square Uranus (age difference, burned out quickly). As long it lasted, we simply couldn't keep our hands off one another!

Another had a stellium of personal planets (including his sun) in my 8th, plus his Mars conjunct my Uranus/Pluto.

Another had his 5 planet stellium on my desc - including Sun, Venus, Mars and Uranus, plus our Venuses were square, as were our Mars (and hence, my Mars square his Uranus as well).

I had a 4 yr long relationship with a guy whose Venus and Mars squared my Pluto and I certainly didn't feel the heat. He was rather passive, so despite the aspect, passion wasn't inherent in his natal chart (Venus Mars not conjunct, and in air, plus lots of water. No fire in his chart at all).

With my ex husband, his Venus/Mars was opposite my Venus/Mars (mine are not conjunct, 12 degrees apart), and his Pluto was on my Sun (on his desc). My Mercury was exactly conjunct his Uranus, and that was a huge factor in our relationship. We always had something to talk about, that overrode everything - I learned a lot from him.  It was psychologically and intellectually intense for sure, but I did not have the intense sexual attraction as with the above relationships - perhaps because his Venus/Mars is in Aquarius, and I didn't feel the adoration 😉

I've never found consistent aspects of attraction for me, neither a particular type that I go for either.

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My favorite is Mars-Pluto!

 

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Moon/Mars conjunctions is really intense

Venus trine/sextile Mars is lovely and feels like butterflies. The opposition is magnetizing and the square is very sexual but equally frustrating. 

Lilith aspects to personal planets or angles  

Sun/Mars, ASC/Mars and Mars/Mars conjunctions/oppositions also some of the hottest 

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@strawb I second the Sun/Mars aspect. Some of the best sex I've ever had involved my ex whose Mars trined my Sun. However I consider him a toxic vampire so that's never going to happen again.

I also have Venus sextile Mars in synastry with a platonic male friend but I wouldn't call it lovely. His Mars sextiles my Venus and it also sextiles my Moon. I don't feel the energy unless it's too subtle to notice anything.

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