i think this happens when i am not giving him enough attention or to get a rise out of me. he says or does mean things. i see so clearly that they are intentional and manipulative. i don't know what to do or say. i get hurt and then i get angry and i ignore and then sometimes he even pushes it and makes it worse. i hear this par for the course with some scorpios. and i am not sure if i am willing to put up with it but for now i am just trying to make some sense of it. will it stop? does he not trust me? are they "tests"? its not like he is paying me alot of attention or i would be reciprocating. he ignores calls and texts. so then i just go quiet and then the games. and this is happening like once or twice a week. please give me some advice...besides dump him haha. i don't know what he is trying to accomplish or how i should respond. thanks.
oh thought i should include some of his more challenging aspects: moon in sag conjunct uranus, venus in scorpio conjunct pluto, mars in libra square neptune
I don't think Scorps are intentionally mean or manipulative unless they have beef with you. Ask him straight up if you did something to offend him. Maybe he is expecting an apology that you've not given him. This is just coming from my own experience with my Scorpio husband.
I think the challenging aspects are key to issues if he's just being mean.
I'd dump him 
alicia...or they are insecure and can't say what they want
caroline...hahaha!
sunshindayz,
I'm a Scorpio-sun, my last relationship was with a Cancer-sun. I've got to say, the way he's treating you is juvenile and horseshit. I'd have to second Caroline and say dump his ass like a bad cold. Being a Scorpio, he'll probably come back, though--because it DOES sound like he's playing manipulative games with you. :S