Hi, I want help.
I’ve been in relationship with this sag guy 12/6 (we met in person and got into a long distance relationship), although he didn’t want to label it and I was okay with it until we meet again and make it official, then all of a sudden this guy came up with that let’s just end this for now, because I can’t give you time and stuff (which I don’t even demand, because I know sags wants a lot of space). Then he asked me to stay friends I was like okay. After that, he just kept asking; weren’t you serious? Because I was, and stuff. Even though I asked him to stay, but didn’t beg and end everything with mutual understanding.
Now whenever we talk about it, that how it ended, he gets a little mad, which keeps me in doubt if it really ended or not? And he gets mad with me real quick, so I had asked him quite few times if he wants me to leave him alone? Or just don’t want me to be around? He just doesn’t let me go either? He’s not letting me go. And tbh, I love this guy. (I’m a Cancer Leo cusp with Sag ascendant)
I want opinions? What should I do? What do you guys think, he’s doing to me?
That’s his birthchart, I don’t know the birth time though.
And that’s my chart
Honestly? Move on. I wouldn’t even be friends with him. It sounds like all you’re going to get out of this is more confusion and suffering.
Sagittarius likes to leave doors open. I agree with Occhineri. He really doesn't suit you. Cancer/Capricorn etc in your chart want and need some security, which this man is not going to offer.
He's also got indications he tends to over-promise. You have better things to do.
I found trying to parse out what's in a man's mind unhelpful and unsatisfying in most cases. It usually was a way to just hang on to a dying situation. It's not what they say and think that's important...it's what they do. Is he loving and consistent. Does he seek out your company regularly. Does he try to build on what is happening. Does he introduce you to his friends and family?
I know....it seems like common sense but it took me most of my twenties, to discard my pre-occupation with 'what does he want" and "why is he doing that' and replace it with this more useful gauge of his feelings.
edit: I don't know if that's helpful but you kind of reminded me of me in my twenties.