Not in love with my bf
I’m sort of in a mental bind here.
I’m in a relationship for about 7-8 months now. We get along great, never fight, both independent and laid back. Make eachother laugh have similar hobbies...And there’s nothing really “wrong” very low maintenance.
But the thing is I’m not in love. I really care about him as a person but I don’t have that love feeling. Since nothings wrong and we get along so well I figured I’d give it time, we had a close friendship prior to dating for a good 6 months, so we were able to get to know eachother well. I thought I’d give it a chance. No relationship for years prior to this.
but I keep coming back to the feeling that something is missing in our relationship. But I feel guilty because for the most part he treats me so well. Shows a lot of affection buys me gifts etc.
he doesn’t get jealous and although we live 10 minutes apart he only asks to see me on weekends. Which I don’t mind I like my space but at the same time it’s like the whole week goes by and you would think I’d be dying to see him. I mean don’t get me wrong I look forward to it but I don’t feel like I “miss him so much”
I have a gut feeling this isn’t the one. But I’m terrified of hurting him. He’s never had a heartbreak and I know he has told me he loves me and i didn’t return. He tells me sweet things about how much he cares and I know it would deeply hurt him.
Is your natal Venus being transited? He sounds awesome!
It sounds like you're searching for something, perhaps, it's a path you feel compelled to seek/to walk. But I have this feeling that years from today, you might come to regret what you are about to do.
I don’t know your chart, and I’m not an astrologer, but I have my Leo in Venus , and while I was younger , I use to crave attention from cool guys, it made me feel alive , so I liked all the attention I got and even played with it. Like Osiris wife said, I do also think you might regret things in the area of your love life. A venus in Leo likes to be center stage , but since Leo is ruled by the sun, you also have to look at what you bring into the relationship. Now I’m older , I am more confident , I don’t chase for the attention anymore . Stability in a relationship is important. While I used to be the one who made it harder, because I had high expectations of how my love life had to be. Make sure you do your part too, otherwise In the end you could regret things. And the butterflies in the beginning of the relationship is wonderful. They vanish after a while. If you miss something it could also be that it’s your imagination. Your view of how a certain love story must be. I experienced a lot of flirts and love , but the stable love is what is most important. Not the meaningless flings, trust me a boy opposite how you describe your current boyfriend isn’t what you want. It will end up in heartbreak.
The title of the thread makes my heart ache, and is very valuable in shock value! 🤓