Mirror aspects in synastry
I don't know if I am using the right terminology, but has anyone else noticed patterns in synastry, like a mirror, that you experience one another similarly? I have Mercury opposite my husband's Venus, and his Mercury is opposite mine. Then we have a Moon Neptune thing going on, same aspects. There may be more, we have so many aspects that I'm still analyzing it all. We commiserate on putting up with each other, that's for sure. ?
It's not that common to see this. When you have a lot of "answering back" like that, I think it strengthens the relationship (for good or ill).
I don't mean that, personal to you. I mean, you might see a lot of this between two charts of people obsessed with each other in a negative way as well.