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Mars in Scorpio Envy

CocoPeaches
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I am obsessed with Scorpio. I just love the whole idea of Pluto energy, I guess because it seems so simple and elegant to me. And I know its actually dirty and, well I would just be a pig in shit Smile Based on my chart I have never thought of myself as "Plutonian" at all because I have an empty 8th house and Pluto is the least aspected planet in my chart. Yet I have plenty of close Scorp friends (one I've had for over 20 years) and I've dated Scorps and I do feel like I understand on some level.

Pluto is a singleton in my chart, which I've been told denotes a strong point of energy. And I am of the Pluto in Scorpio generation (so Yes, t.Pluto is hovering around my Neptune right now.) My natal Pluto is in my4th house, semisextile my moon, and sextile Neptune. I'm quite a private emotional brooder for having a 5th house Sadge moon! Pluto will cross my DC in about 5 years, and I'm looking forward to it.

Anyway, I just realized that I actually envy Scorpio (after thinking about the other threads about envy, of course). I wish I had Mars in Scorpio, damnit! So in response to the quote posted by Elsa, is my envy an insult to myself? Probably. I have Mars in Gemini, and Mercury in Gemini too... and bluntly asking a guy about his interests via Facebook message just isn't very sexy. I always want to connect with deep, emotional guys, and they often like me (I have BML conjunct Asc. in Cancer), but then I scare them away with uppity Gemini jibber jabber. I need to be better about communicating my feelings I think, because I don't have any other water in my chart besides Pluto and Asc, and I really would like to share an emotional bond with someone special.

I am pretty paranoid about coming off as a needy emotional type, but at a certain point I'm usually willing to gush just to see how a person reacts. That probably helps to scare men away too, and when thats the case and I get no response, then I'm glad I got rid of them! That can't be right, can it?
I have Mercury opposite moon so it's always hard for me to say what I feel, and when I do - I just don't have any tact. I don't know what these guys think. I am into this Venus in Cancer guy right now, and he has Mars in Aries, so I'm hoping that whole combination with my Venus in Aries will be weird enough that it works.

Any Mars in Scorpio people with anything to say? What do you people even do to get what you want? I guess I could quit being so easy! Please tell me the manipulation technique that I need to learn 😉

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psychoscorpio
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Aw right now I envy you. My abrubt ways and attitudes get me into trouble, people are always telling me to soften my words, and the provocative side is misunderstood.

I have a BIG RULE though, NO MANIPULATION! No underhanded ways! It just results in pent up anger and guilt and depression later on that you can't work out why.

To get what I want - courage and honesty and bit of WHAT? GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY WAY... just have to learn that people take this offendingly.

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Fluffy
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I would LOVE having Mercury and Mars in Gemini - you must be able to outwit anyone.

Mine are both in Libra. They have their perks, but not the raw energy of Gemini, which I say would rival that of Scorpio's.

Why not look into your Draconic chart? You might actually have lots of Scorpio in that version. Astro.com it.

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julianwinter
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Honesty is the best form of manipulation.

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electricmind
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i do love my mars in scorpio. but i wish i could be straight forwarf with my feelings. its annoying to ALWAYS be so internal and indirect. i tink my mars annoys my aries moon that just wants to get on with it.

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electricmind
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Honesty is the best form of manipulation.

how true.

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