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leobra1221
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Looks like the full moon snapped something. Leo and his girl are breaking up as of yesterday

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Omg. It's a pressure cooker energy. Especially with Moon now in Taurus. Fixed energy crushing. 

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Omg. It's a pressure cooker energy. Especially with Moon now in Taurus. Fixed energy crushing. 

She found out about us. Caused a big fight, she wanted to break up and he isnt fighting for it to stay together.

He told me he has alot to take care of and he is stressed...

that if "he makes the right decision" that we would be together,...

I guess I am sitting back seeing what happnes.

He reassured me of his feelings.

Even told me before this happnended that he was falling in love with me.

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I'm rooting for you! 

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I'm rooting for you! 

Thank you so much Smile

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Update since it has been a month, Shortly after they broke up he got distant and didnt talk to me for a little while so I got the hint and moved on. Focused on dating this Scorpio.

Low and behold when I finally let go he comes back around. Making comments how he misses me and how I am different now and wants to see me blah blah

I realize now, he chose her. And I am just going to be some side option. I am not doing this again... smh.

 

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@leobra1221 What would you like to happen in this situation?

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At this point I want him out of my life, I dont see it going anywhere or being anything..

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@leobra1221 Venus is in Capricorn until March and will have a retrograde phase so it's going to be interesting to see how this affects women and relating!

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My sense is women want men to show up right now and take responsibility (Saturn). Commitment basically.

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I tell him today I am done with this. He freaks out tells me he doesn’t wanna lose me. Wants to be with me and no one else. Wants to make it work with me.

told me he didn’t stay because he wanted to be with her over me. But because it would make life easier for the kids and him. He said he realizes it was the wrong choice

 

i told him he has said he wanted to be with me and would before so how am I gonna believe you

I am trying to stay firm here so he doesn’t just keep me as an option. How do I get him to realize this

 

i tried to ignore him today didn’t work blew up my phone showed up at my gym.

he told me he was super sad, doesn’t want to lose me.

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He can't lose you because he doesn't have you. If he wanted you he would have left her. At this point I would block his calls and tell him I will get a restraining order if he shows up. Listen, you don't really know that you were ever going to be anything but a side option and you deserve better. If he wants to make side options he doesn't care about anyone except himself. He sounds childish. I guess you could say come see me with divorce papers in hand, but I don't think you would be getting much. I may sound harsh, but speaking as someone who has wasted a bit of time on unavailable men, DON'T. 

edit to add: and just think. After he leaves your work or gets off the phone w/you and he goes home to his wife and lies to her over and over. She doesn't know what he's just done! Obviously he ok with lying. In my experience people in the habit of lying, lie to everyone. What makes you think he won't lie to you?

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I missed where you said "At this point I want him out of my life, I dont see it going anywhere or being anything.."

I thinks that's the right call. There is someone better for you!

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@jana 

I agree with you. I would have trouble trusting him if anything came of this. And at the point I don’t think anything will change. 
he gets scared and says this kind of stuff every time I try to walk away. Almost feels like you said… wants me because he can’t have me.

I don’t wanna play this game any longer

 

thank you for your continuous follow up and advice 😊

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So, since he told me he wanted to be with me. They arent together she moved out, even invited me over. Seemed more promising.

Right when I thought it was going somewhere. He pulls back, said he has to stop talking to me because its starting to affect him seeing his kids.

He said his ex knowing he is seeing me, she is threatening him not seeing kids. Taking him to court and getting nasty.

I told him i understand, kids come first and its not worth it.

He seemed so upset, almost teary eyed. I kept myself together well, wished him the best. Was understanding.

 

Before he left he said "Who knows maybe one day I will message you, but I cannot gaurntee anything"

We havent spoke since. Which i know its hard for him because normally I cant get rid of him.

I have thought about it, hes gonna be tied to her for life and probably will always be an issue if im in his life, and the kids life. Probably always some drama... so I understand. But at the same time, I feel she will still give him a hard time about the kids regardless if im involved or not becuase she is spiteful about what happnened. Even though she wasnt innocent herself.

 

I am letting go of this...

 

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I am letting go of this...

Sounds like a good idea!  Fish another line. Get off to a fresh start.

Good luck!

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