How to leave someone you're attached to
I need help leaving my current relationship. I'm not happy and theres things I am not okay with. I dont see him ever making effort to get any progression in our relationship.
I know it wont work, but its very hard to leave. Everytime we have almost broken up neither of us can actually go through with it.
I have a lot of uneasy feelings with how close he is to his childs mothers and it crosses boundaries for me, and she prevents us from even moving forward in the relationship.
I do not get consistent emotions from him. One week he loves me to death the next feels like he doesnt even wanna be around me.
I am drained, unhappy, and not okay with how he handles some of his life situations.
The healthy thing for me emotionally and mentally is to cut ties but I am having a hard time.
I'm sorry you're struggling. If you post your chart, it will be easier to map you way out of this, in a way that's natural for you.
Sorry I mistakenly sent his.
Scorpio chart is his.
Leo is mine
I need to use my own program, but hey! I would do this today, with the Fixed T-square hitting your Venus.
I also note you have Mars in Libra.... it's your Venus and Mars return (mine too).
The problem may be your Libra. Can't decide? But you can decide if you decide; then cut and get yourself free!
It’s always difficult in the early stages when we first leave someone. From what you state, the cons definitely outweigh any pros. I think if you end it, you’ll come out feeling stronger for it. Best of Luck.
I think I remember you had written before about this situation? I don’t know if it got better then worse again? Anyway, I wish you strength and clarity in your decision.