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How to leave someone you're attached to

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I need help leaving my current relationship. I'm not happy and theres things I am not okay with. I dont see him ever making effort to get any progression in our relationship.

I know it wont work, but its very hard to leave. Everytime we have almost broken up neither of us can actually go through with it.

I have a lot of uneasy feelings with how close he is to his childs mothers and it crosses boundaries for me, and she prevents us from even moving forward in the relationship.

I do not get consistent emotions from him. One week he loves me to death the next feels like he doesnt even wanna be around me.

I am drained, unhappy, and not okay with how he handles some of his life situations.

The healthy thing for me emotionally and mentally is to cut ties but I am having a hard time.

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 Elsa
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I'm sorry you're struggling. If you post your chart, it will be easier to map you way out of this, in a way that's natural for you.

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Sorry I mistakenly sent his.

Scorpio chart is his.

Leo is mine

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 Elsa
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I need to use my own program, but hey! I would do this today, with the Fixed T-square hitting your Venus.

I also note you have Mars in Libra.... it's your Venus and Mars return (mine too).

The problem may be your Libra. Can't decide? But you can decide if you decide; then cut and get yourself free!

 

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Allie
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@elsa I concur!

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Hades Moon
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It’s always difficult in the early stages when we first leave someone. From what you state, the cons definitely outweigh any pros. I think if you end it, you’ll come out feeling stronger for it. Best of Luck.

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Allie
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I think I remember you had written before about this situation? I don’t know if it got better then worse again? Anyway, I wish you strength and clarity in your decision.

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@allie120 Things got alot worse for a couple months. They have simmered down this last month trying to work on things and I am just coming to the realization that I dont think this is worth it anymore

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