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How to deal with Venus-Pluto synastry?
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Elsa
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Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 6:39 am
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Venus/pluto synastry.

I have Pluto trine Venus  (my Pluto) with both my ex-husband and present husband and would say that it is helpful as it adds depth to the relationships.

I had Pluto opp Venus (my Pluto) with my first boyfriend years ago and again it gave depth to the r/ship.

However, towards the end of the r/ship I found myself creating drama because I was bored. Eventually we broke up because he cheated on me with a friend of mine. I can’t remember it being that traumatic, to be honest.

I had Pluto square Venus (my Pluto) with a guy I was engaged to. He had the aspect natally as he had Venus in Scorpio and my Pluto just added fuel to the fire. It was drama +++ Again I found myself ‘punching his buttons’ to create a reaction and I really don’t know why I did that. It wasn’t a healthy r/ship and we split up.

I’ve never had a r/ship with anyone whose Pluto aspected my Venus. I have Venus in Virgo and the guys I was interested in were of the Pluto in Leo generation, so there was no aspect.

IMO Venus/Pluto hard synastry aspects should be avoided, unless you want your emotions churned up on a regular basis!

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When I was about 10 my uncle (my mother’s brother), age about 40, became strangely obsessed with me.

I grew up without a father and this @rsehole SHOULD in all decency have played the part of surrogate father, if anything. I have no doubt that I flirted with him though I don’t recall doing that. That’s what little girls do, don’t they? Learn how to flirt by trying out their feminine powers on their daddies?

He never touched me. He just peeked at me – he had noisy sex with his wife after setting me up to be in easy hearing distance. Afterwards, his eyes glittered ferally at me. This went on for about 10 years, then he moved to another country.

I had been an adult for several decades before I realized that he mostly behaved as if he were in love/lust with me. Euw euw euw (pardon me while I go and have a quick puke in the corner…).

My Venus was conjunct his Pluto/Saturn, opposite his Sun/Mars and quincunx to his Venus.

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