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How soon would you say is too soon to express feelings to someone?
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Monday, July 30, 2018 - 12:33 pm
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I am not talking about saying “I love you” or anything, not even close.
But express how you feel about them. Tell them you really like them and how they make you feel?
Normally I wait for the guy to express himself and I am a slow mover with feelings, it takes me awhile to gain feelings.
BUT this guy is different, I have liked him instantly from the beginning and it is getting to the point where I want to let it out!
But I do not want to come off clingy or something. I just wanna express that I really like him and what I like about him but I dont wanna be too much.
I know he really likes me by actions, hes very consistent ,sweet and respectful
But he has not verbally expressed anything yet. 
I feel he is holding back and I get a hunch he is scared to realize feelings. I dont wanna scare him off.
But one thing I have noticed is if I am more expressive about things he seems to express more sort of like mirroring me.
Like I text him a certain flirty name, and now he calls me it all the time lol or I said good morning one morning and now he sends it most days.
Maybe he is holding back because he wants to be sure I reciprocate?
To be more specific the guy is an Aries and I am a Leo
I normally always let the guy take the lead with this type of thing but something is different, I feel extremely comfortable expressing myself with this guy, I just am cautious

Also, we have been “Dating” and seeing one another for about a month now.
And he asked to meet my parents, and he met them a few days ago.
He always holds doors open, TRYS to pay for everything, always texts me first almost everyday.
Wants to spend free time with me. Took 2 weeks to even kiss me which I found sweet and innocent. Still have not slept together. Just getting to know each other.

How do Aries men normally go about expressing themselves? I feel he is cautious, but I know that if Aries feel a certain way they like it to be known
 
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My husband is an Aries, he used to throw little hints my way, then back pedal on them ha!!. He asked me to marry him after 3 months 

 If he is asking to meet your parents I think that says a lot.

 Personally I think you will realize his feelings by what he does more than what he says.

 Showing him your appreciation for what he does will speak volumes.

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Opalina said
My husband is an Aries, he used to throw little hints my way, then back pedal on them ha!!. He asked me to marry him after 3 months 

 If he is asking to meet your parents I think that says a lot.

 Personally I think you will realize his feelings by what he does more than what he says.

 Showing him your appreciation for what he does will speak volumes.  

Aww Im guessing you said yes??
And yes he expresses his feelings more through actions, and he says things that indirectly prove he cares.

And I definitely do try to show him appreciation for everything!

And when he met my parents it seems he really cared to make a good impression. Which made me feel he really cares! Thanks for the input

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I always play it by ear, judging how much they can handle. Everyone’s different. Some you’d better strike while the iron’s hot while others need time to warm up and get comfortable.

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I usually go with my gut in these instances.

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Thursday, October 11, 2018 - 4:56 am
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Actions speak louder than words.

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My husband is not an Aries but his Pisces Sun does Trine Mars and he has a Aries stellium. He told me he loved me after a couple of weeks.  My brother in law is an Aries Sun and he’s very forward as well when he’s into someone.

I know not everyone thinks this way but I usually believe if a guy is into you, you’ll definitely know. There’s no wondering. I don’t like games so I pay attention to actions.

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