I don't think we talk enough about green flags in dating and relationships. If you know what you're looking for, a big green flag can override a small red one, and in my opinion, it should.
This strikes me as a Virgo quality. Other signs do "attraction," or "emotional connection" etc. and hope for the best. Virgo seems to think it's more prudent to like someone before you love them (Libra). So, what makes you like someone outside of sex or falling in love? What are your green flags? Are there any that are universal or are they all personal? Name the astrology.
Sun conjunct Venus is my top aspect regarding green flags in synastry. A mutual liking between two people is there.
Humor, dry wit, clever banter, sense of adventure, grit -- Brains and Brawn.
My natal Gemini Jupiter in 5th, Aries Mercury in 3rd square Cap Mars, Libra Neptune 9th opp. Aries Sun 3rd... ?
If they took care of their children and treat their mom well, you're in great shape.
Sun conj Mercury in Cancer 6th house here: if I see a man treat animals well, that's the most important to me. People who take care and respect animals can only show the same treatment to people. My Moon sextile Neptune loves artists and my 5th house Jupiter in Gemini loves a sharp wit. My partner fulfills all three!☺️
Hard work ethics, paying their bills, being honest, they don’t steal, cheat. Take care of their mama and family, have a good perspective.
Not sure where this falls in a chart but sometimes you just need to watch how a person loves and lives. By Example - not what’s in a chart. My love had a grand trine and a kite and I have zero clue what that means, because I am learning all this. But, the way he treats strangers and others speaks loud and clear and his work pattern speaks volumes. His character is strong and he can be trusted and is loyal.