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Did you Ever have a Long Distance Relationshp Work out?
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Tuesday, May 19, 2020 - 2:31 pm
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capDB, I agree that Family Constellations are powerful. I did a few constellations during different trainings years ago and saw my life changed in unexpected ways very very quickly afterwards. The healing is so real…

It sounds like the chain of events after your constellation felt deeply meaningful to you and that you’re open to what the future might bring. Being open and hopeful is great when looking to partner and for love.

Hopefully his guilt subsides soon…It sounds like you’re two adults who’ve looked at all angles and people involved in your lives (at different levels and degrees) and want to give what you are feeling an honest try.

Emails are always good to combine with Zoom (there’s a reason why I advise combining communication methods), if you both like to write and put your thoughts on paper/email. And letters are good too. Yet only for people with strong Mercuries, Gemini (even Virgo) or 3rd house emphasis, I’d say.

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Um wow!!! That is a POWERFUL synchronicity, at least it looks like it to me. After so many blocks and challenges I think it can be easy to see that this would be more of the same, but damn woman, you are getting DIRECT communication from your higher self here. I say embrace it, have fun and go for it! Sometimes life does bless us! 

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CrisLondon said

Emails are always good to combine with Zoom (there’s a reason why I advise combining communication methods), if you both like to write and put your thoughts on paper/email. And letters are good too. Yet only for people with strong Mercuries, Gemini (even Virgo) or 3rd house emphasis, I’d say.

  

Agree! Communicating across the distance can be a lot of fun for Mercurial types…

I met my husband when I was on vacation. When I returned home, he and I texted back and forth continuously for over a month until I went back to see him. Our styles of communicating were shockingly compatible, and that helped me decide that I needed to go for another visit! Now we look back on those conversations very fondly. My Mercury is in Gemini and his in Virgo.

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I love my mom so much who live so far from me and I miss her so much and call her everyday.

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Sorry for your sadness and longing.

I hope you will be able to see her again soon! 

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Satsun said
Sorry for your sadness and longing.

I hope you will be able to see her again soon! 

  

Thank you so much. The Mom and son’s relationship is natural, and I don’t feel afraid of any long distance.

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I don’t know what happened. But it shifted. As it always does. I think the San Francisco thing, for me, was really about tapping into a feeling I didn’t feel I had access to prior to now. Continuing the family constellations work and a relief to be talking to guys closer to home. But he and I are still talking. I’m just feeling more of a disconnect now. We’ll see. But using it to continue learning and growing!

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Tuesday, May 26, 2020 - 2:54 am
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Hey capDB,

We still have Venus retrograde. Good you’re still talking. 

With distance and possibly different life stages because of children’s age differences timing can be a key matter.

Plus we have the pandemic and travel limits and financial worries…I think it’s normal to notice some shifts in people. What a year.. 

One thought. I might be ‘off piste’ and wrong (apologies if I am.)

Are you the one disconnecting a little? Perhaps protecting yourself? (you say about the perceived shift “As it always  does”)

I’d say keep talking and learning and growing smile

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Wow CrisLondon! You’re spot on.

 

I turned away. I do this. Thankfully I had therapy yesterday and she was on to me. 

 

So I’m not sure what’s what right now.

 

I did another family constellations session today b/c I have other things on my plate. 

I’m also really curious about fate, so may post separately.

But thanks for noticing. 🙂

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