Composite Sun by House
In some ways, I think the House of the composite Sun can provide even more insight than the Sun sign alone. It's interesting to think about the subject, to see in which area of Life does the relationship "shine".
For instance, In the last three years, I have seen three men. The first one was the Love of my Life, we had a 7th House composite Sun. Then somehow with the last two men, one of whom I have only dated for three months because the relationship couldn't seem to work, the trend was reversed and I had a Composite 1st House Sun with both of them. The difference was palpable, even more so because with the last person, the 1st House Composite Sun fell in Libra, a relationship-oriented sign, but in a very individualistic House.
I must say, the Libran composite Sun made our relationship VERY civilized. We NEVER fought! Not even once. (10/10, would recommend, haha.) But the 1st House undertone was very present - there was this youthful enthusiasm about our relationship, even though he was older and we would discuss serious subjects like marriage and kids, we would do so in a bold, 1st House kind of way. With the other 1st House relationship this was even more obvious, there was even less talk about the future and a more intense feeling of living "in the moment". And I think this synthetizes the Essence of a 1st House Sun in composite.
Care about sharing your observation about Composite Sun placement by House? Do you notice a pattern in your relationships, in this regard? What Composite Sun placement did you feel most comfortable with, so far? Which one did you find unsettling or uncompatible with your relationship needs?
I'm talking about relationships of any kind but of course if you want to discuss the placement you have with your current SO and you can explain it more detailedly, it's good!
My husband and I have an Aries composite sun in the 7th. It feels forced in some ways. It does for me in that internally I fight the One Unit, the fused partnership where two become one and we merge and all that crap. His natal Venus is in the 7th so he NEEDS fusion. I'm ok on my own as a person. Aries sun (the "me, I") in the 7th ("we, ours"). I pull out, he wants to pull me in.
Oh for the record, I'm not necessarily against merging and all that. It just goes over the top sometimes and that makes me ick. Don't erase me dude! lol
Thanks for sharing Allie, it's interesting because I can relate, apparently there can be conflict when 7th House/Libra and 1st House/Aries overlap... at least basing on what you have said about your composite, which is something that resonates with my experience of 1st House Libra composite Sun.