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Can friends with benefits ever work?


MariaR
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I'm curious what people think about friends with benefits.

Can they ever work out well for both? Or will one person eventually get hurt?

If anybody has experiences they would like to share I'm interested.

 

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It can and does work for as long as both parties agree. Uranus in 7th or 8th. or tied to venus/mars is good with it.

If you're lying to yourself about what you really want, then an awakening is coming and it will probably be painful. 

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Would both need to have Uranus in 7th / 8th natally? 

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@mariar You don't need to have it. It's just it takes some kind of detachment that Uranian types have. Uranus /Moon to. Or Venus/Mars in Aquarius.

Other people aren't that interested in a situation like this. I'm talking about one that works. 

 

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Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

 

Yes, to work it would definitely take detachment.  I can see why Uranus and Aquarius would be significant. 

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