Being the ghost leg of someone's natal Tsquare
What kind of relationship karma would one have to keep being the ghost leg of other people's Tsquares natally or by progressions?
I recently met a colleague (a woman), first via email, introduced by another acquaintance at work, then over video chats and later in person. Its like I have always known her! We can yap for hours and not feel tired. There is genuine mutual understanding. I later found out she is senior HR at the unit I am at, which made some of the revelations weird, but she is genuinely warm and caring. So I felt safe.
I am going to meet her again soon and speak of my current personal circumstances. I am freaking out about the possibility of being pregnant, giving birth alone, in a house 50 kms from the city. In my mind, she can be my support system and a trusted friend who can be there for me. At first, I assumed it was fear talking. But then, I looked at her chart and there it was! My sun fills her natal Tsquare.
This is not the first time this is happening. I tend to attract family-substitutes where my personal planets fill their natal or progressed Tsquares. Curious about the phenomenon and want to ask of you have had similar experiences or want to share insights?
I have. I usually feel very strongly about the person for good or bad.
I am the T-Square, and the person completes me. It's a feeling of coming home, after a long search..
p.s your questions/posts often have a profound effect on me. Thank you for reminding me of this, lest I take them for granted.
I don’t think it nullifies the TSq-GL connection and in my opinion both will equally feel the impact of the transiting outer planets. Now as we know outer planets are “change agents” so that connection will experience growth, likely evolve depending on the rest of the charts. So, you are right in saying the TSq now has an outlet with the transitioning planet, but more than an outlet, the TSq likely learns how to balance within without externalizing or relying on another. In other words, the lesson may be learned and the TSq may not need that specific GL anymore, instead may need a different experience for further learning/growth through a new GL chart. This is one possibly scenario, obviously a planet like Saturn’s transits might bind the TSq-GL. How the connect is impacted will strongly depend on other aspects between the TSq-GL charts.
Do you think Tsquares (and consequently, their GL) involving the Nodes are a thing? That’s just a natural axis, right? But what if its a focal point of a chart?
This is the concept of “Skipped Step(s)” from Evolutionary Astrology - Nodes forming a TSq with a planet or planets in conjunction. Since the Nodes are not heavenly bodies, I personally do not believe the interchange of energy in a Skipped Step happens as we are discussing in this topic. The exception is, if one or both Nodes are conjunct a leg, respectively, in a planetary only TSq. Since the Nodes are our subconscious emotions and the Moon being the conscious emotions, it implies that Nodal involvement in a planetary TSq-GL connection might bring up a lot of subconscious stuff for the TSq – for good or bad, as some of that stuff maybe from childhood, the past (S.Node), and it’s resurfacing is designed to help the native grow, move forward (N.Node). The GL would then receive the energy through the opposition planet in the TSq, this energy having gone through a subconscious emotional (Nodes) synthesis in the TSq’s chart. Basically, when the Nodes are involved there is a lot more going on below the surface, mostly for the Node owner.
On the other hand, I find the concept of Skipped Steps fascinating, but not everyone believes in reincarnation.
P.S. I love how comprehensive this thread is turning out to be, even if it seems like a conversation between just us both. I hope it helps someone stumbling upon it sometime in the future.
Thanks for reminding me of this. Today, I was about to throw the towel-in on all the topics that I seemingly am talking to myself. So, I also hope our conversation enlightens a passerby one day.
GL of a Cardinal, Fixed or Mutable Tsq? Does it matter if the aspect is out of sign, and thereby out of modality?
I think the fixed TSq is the hardest to deal with. It's fixed, and fixed signs simply don't like change. The mutable TSq eventually adapts. Whereas, the cardinal TSq will more likely run with the horses. As for the out of sign GL, I think those can be tricky perhaps less effective, as they likely bring a different element that may frustrate the flow of energy. I generally find out of sign aspects less obvious. I have one in my chart and it always catches me and others off guard when it rears it's head (hehehe).
Thank you for the explanation(s), for both modality and out of aspects. If you have any other examples of transits to the GL or Tsq, please share. I am very curious. I will also be on the lookout for Progressions and their significance.
Last (i think) questions, I know you believe in all akashic records saying essentially the same thing, but is there any major difference in a Tsq/GL created by a synastry in traditional tropical chart, a draconic chart or sidereal chart; a solar arc (especially since outers move much faster in Solar Arc) or progressed chart (where both people are right now in time?) AND a Tsq/GL created in a composite, progressed composite (state of relationship now?)?
Its too complicated, I know. So feel free to tackle it in stages.