Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused "
I've been accused of it, and my ex husband felt emasculated at times.. but it wasn't on purpose. When a female has confidence AND acts assertively when needed then I guess the saying fits more or less, though again, never purposefully. I love and adore men!!
And Libra Noir, I'm a Gemini Sun....
I have some ball-busting women as friends. My mother was a Leo and a strong woman.....
This kind of thing? Just really going for the jugular:
Oh yeah, I bust 'em up. I can't suffer fools. Though the older I get the more I see the peace and wisdom in just shutting the hell up. Mars conjunct Saturn and Uranus? Mercury sq. Uranus? Sun sq. Sadge Mars? All that Virgo? Shit, I have nothing but ball-busting aspects. Also am Italian.