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Tuesday, May 5, 2020 - 6:06 pm
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Yes, in that context, that now sounds familiar. I have heard that in movies and on TV.

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Oh, that’s definitely not what I meant, lol. Misinterpreted that. 😄

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Yesterday I was laughing I don’t need a man at my home except two things – sex and bringing very heavy things (I mean like sofa or closet – I live at 4th floor without lift 😉 ). I said it after I repaired washmachine…. And I know that a lot of guys are feeling insecure next to me (many of them told me that…). And I’m improving my selfconfidence still…

 

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Saturday, May 23, 2020 - 5:35 am
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I’ll ask my husband – he’s observant – and will report back.

I feel I’m bossy and controlling yet I also let others be. A mix.

Always was an assertive person (a woman in my case) with men and women.

I have Sun square Mars so I have a combative nature (which I work hard to channel, hehe) and when I was younger I didn’t ball bust (read Elsa’s definition) much in my opinion yet some men (I lived in a Latin country then) found me too ‘masculine’ in action.

I called it being assertive…

I’ll also ask my brother…see what he thinks!

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Hubby says I’m not ball-busting at all.

My brother says I repeat myself (hubby says the same, I agree hehe) but he can’t think of myself as ball-busting.

I have seen some women and men constantly frustrate little and adolescent boys and girls’ attempts to express themselves freely over and over again. My mother calls it ‘snapping a child’s wings’

Some people do this angrily and in an attacking way. Imagine being frustrated and needing to defend oneself.

I think it’s interesting how hard I’m finding getting around this topic…will explore why and come back if I find out why…

Wait. My sister in law always criticises her husband (think during the pandemic lockdown she’s softening!)

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So I’ve reread the posts…I’m definitely ‘fogging’ around this topic.

I remember seeing 60s Spanish (from Spain) movies and some women were similar to the concept here. Always on the men’s case for nothing – even I’d want to get away from that energy.

Guess some men and women like that…I haven’t seen it in a while and because I’m clearly ‘fogging’ around this matter (lockdown mind fog or personal blind spot?)

What would be the usual astrology that goes with this kind of behaviour?

By the way, did you know that ball-busting is a sexual thing too? In my google search yesterday I got the gist of it – not my thing either in that department 😉

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Saturday, May 23, 2020 - 8:37 am
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I think it may be an Italian thing. Sorry!

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I think it may be an Italian thing. Sorry!

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Sunday, May 24, 2020 - 10:01 am
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To clarify, busting someone’s balls is different than nagging. 🙂

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“Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused “
 
This whole year – culminating with the Saturn Jupiter conjunction in Aquarius on the December solstice is about the alchemical transcendence of gender. The lower instinctual centers are being purged of the hunger for both the role of user/abuser and the role of the victim.
 
 
 
 
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I’ve been accused of it, and my ex husband felt emasculated at times.. but it wasn’t on purpose.  When a female has confidence AND acts assertively when needed then I guess the saying fits more or less, though again, never purposefully.  I love and adore men!!

And Libra Noir, I’m a Gemini Sun….

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Saturday, May 30, 2020 - 2:42 pm
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I have some ball-busting women as friends. My mother was a Leo and a strong woman…..

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This kind of thing? Just really going for the jugular:

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