Any experience with secretive Scorpios?
There's a guy I've been talking to for a few weeks now. We also hung out one time so far and it was really fun. Going to repeat this soon, maybe we get closer, maybe not.
Anyway, he's a Scorpio/Gemini/Libra, very secretive and doesn't trust people easily. I have dated a Scorpio before, but he wasn't even close like this one. He doesn't talk much about what is going on in his head, he rather shows it through actions. We talk for example a lot via Skype and a few times he stayed longer than he intended to or got on when he had no intentions in doing this in the first place. The only time I ever got the feeling by words, he likes me, was when he said to me "It would be great if we met on July 30 again". He would even be fine with a later date, so it's obvious he likes me . Also when we hung out, I got the staring from him, but I was otherwise unable to read his body language lol But it's always rather non obvious hints he likes me. Bleh, I better shut up or it gets too long.
I had somebody looking at his chart and I've been told, he would rather keep any feelings for himself. He also don't like fast body contact and that's fine with me. No need trying to get into my pants on the second date 😉 I can deal with that, but how do you handle such people in the long run? Any stories?
There is nothing you can do to get a Scorpio to reveal themselves or open up, except to just seem trustworthy. They gotta do it on their own. I always let them be the boss...
My best advice would be to just not try and to play any games. Be authentic because a strong Scorpio type will see through the 'fake' in a heartbeat and determine that you can't be trusted. Loyalty and trust are very important to a Scorpio and believe me, he'll be looking (or staring) for any sign to the contrary.
If you ask me, getting a Scorpio's attention is easy, and being yourself is easy too- so relax and I hope it works out well for you! 😉
My ex was an Aquarian with Scorpio Moon and Gemini Ascendant. I thought she was a sex fiend who had some serious moral dificiencies.... but apparently she was damn good at hiding motives , too. Too bad she was not as savy at hidding things she did.... Karma bit her hard durring our divorce proceedings.
Thanks! I figured, I just let him closer on his own if he really wants to. It drives me nuts, but I don't want to push him away either by being impatient.
I'm not the kind of person that plays games anyway. I usually stay true to myself. Playing games is a waste of time imo.
Besides what already been mentioned, don't seem to eager to get to know him. Scorpio types are suspicious of people that try to figure them out, they think there's an ulterior motive- even if it's just genuine curiosity.
I'm one of those enthusiastic types that ask people all about themselves probably way too early, and I've had Scorpios shut down on me before because they thought I was prying, when really I was just interested in being their friend.