8th House Fascination
My experiences with people who trigger my Virgo 8th house have been mixed. My dad's Sun/Merc/Asc fall on my 8th, which is totally fitting because I learn a lot from him about politics etc and he has me thinking about getting into the political arena at some point.
On the other hand, my ex had his Sun and early Libra Mars on my 8th... His job was 8th house-like, indeed (military), and I admire him to this day for that, but the relationship became an uncalled-for power struggle from his side and turned emotionally abusive. I ended up cheating on him ran out of it like hell. Took me almost 4 years of therapy to overcome the scars.