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I am very sorry to say that my son, Vid, and his girlfriend of three years have broken up.  He's now in the throes of his first broken heart.  It's gut-wrenching to witness but I do know that virtually NO ONE avoids such a thing.

He's 21. I'm not sure if it's worse or better to suffer this when you're younger but I do know you never forget the pain!

I was about 15, the first time a boy broke my heart. It was my high school boyfriend, who I was partnered with for 2.5 years.  It was serious relationship, in spite of it beginning when as 12. We were voted, "most likely to marry" and a matter of fact, he spray painted the side of his VW can with this message: "I LOVE ELSA!"

He broke up with me and I blindsided by the pain. So much so, I actually had to get some aspirin to try to address the pain. Believe it or not, in spite of numerous beatings, I never took aspirin. I really thought it was going to take of my problem - it didn't.

Tell us about your first broken heart.

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Very, very sorry for Vid.

In my case, I have a Pisces
Moon conjunct Chiron and opposed
a Virgo Stellium including Pluto.

I can't remember "The First One".
It was all a long train wreck.
I do not miss those days whatsoever.
I started to write about it, but it
felt icky to go back that far.

I just threw myself at someone who didn't
really want me. And the truth was, we
had nothing in common but I just thought
I would accept anything in return for
physical lust based on appearance and

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I just thought of something funny.
A few years ago, my son was dumped
by his beloved right before Christmas.
He was very depressed. I was staying
on the couch of his apartment, and I
told him he needed to clean his room
and organize his closet to attract
relationship help. I explained that
the horrible disgusting mess was
not attracting good energy. So he
spent the night away and left me
there alone. I drove to the
dollar store and bought a few
organizers. Came back and took
the room apart and emptied the a
closet. Carefully cleaned and
organized and put away. Removed
all garbage and clutter, etc.
He was furious. But it worked.
A couple months later he met a
special someone.

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I'm very sorry to hear this. 

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i had saturn , neptune and uranus conjunct my Jupiter and pluto opposition my mars and venus for my ill fated relationship. Long story but I almost died from it

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My first boyfriend. We met when I was 14 .I was 16 when we broke up. I could not get out of bed for 3 days. We had plans to marry when I turned 17 . One of the many times my parents chose to meddle in my relationships 

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