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la_sirena
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Have you seen Kourtney Kardashians wedding veil? The beauty of that veil makes me honestly cry. 

I’m not a Kardashian fan. It’s just the veil… holy cow!!

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I get to this point with some people- where I can’t give one more allowance, one more forgiveness, one more ounce of my attention or energy. It’s happening with someone I work with now and it actually sucks for me. It’s not like I get some pleasure out of it (relief yes), it’s just that I have to keep my dignity. How do you tell someone that they lost a friend? 

I’m wondering too if not many people operate like a Libra- basically I am your friend until you show me otherwise. Like- I am automatically cool with you unless or until you show me that you are not my friend (and then my Scorpio kicks in lol). But maybe it’s not like that for everyone? 

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@libra-noir I operate in a similar fashion but am very, very slow to pull the trigger. Then there are two triggers, I think.

First trigger, I just get away. In this circumstance, a connection might be restored. Basically, I'm just getting out before more damage is done in either direction.  I'm gone but accessible if the other party has a hard offer.

If it goes further and it goes further over time, I warn and I mean, I warn in a way that is very clear; that my snapping is at hand.  Long history with this and I point that out too. I am NOT playing because there is a point where you done enough damage to me, I will look through you for the rest of my life, until one of us dies - I am done and I mean done.  The thing is broken beyond repair. You become a corpse, see? An I'm not interested in waking the dead. 

I don't recommend any of this to anyone. It's just the way I am.  There is pain, pain, pain and pain and I have a very high tolerance.  But once you have me out there far enough, you can breathe and I'll snap.

I even tell people the line that can't be crossed. Invariably, they cross it and the ax falls. No clue why people don't believe me. Or they do believe me and want me to take this action. It's irrelevant. I am a person with boundaries.

This would be a great thread!

 

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@elsa I don’t see this person apologizing or anything like that. His ego is too big for that, especially to admit he’s wrong to a woman! He’s an Cancer man going through his second Saturn return. It’s bringing him down and I think he’s just mad about it, mad at the world, mad at God. I’d help him if he would let me but again- his ego would not let a woman see his vulnerability. It’s actually sad.

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On another note- the depth of symbolism in Gullermo DelToro’s films is actually amazing, the way he weaves it in and how keen his understanding seems to be. I wonder what tradition he’s studied (it’s obvious that he has a lot of mythological/magickal/esoteric knowledge). 

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Bought a hard core washing machine in late November last year. Broken as of today. 🙁

but it's finally raining so I don't have to water the garden today. Almost makes up for it. It's been THAT hot.

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Nightmare with the broken washing machine. It's under warranty but none of the authorized repair people will come here!  I know why. Gas prices!

I have seven hours down the tubes at this point.

I think I have someone to do it now. He said he would call me, end of the week.  I live in hope!

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I wish people would post. My close friends all have terminal illnesses... all of them.  I just heard that another friend had a stoke.  I really wonder / worry that people who are MIA might be sick. I mean, the stress of life is really causing a lot harm.

If you don't mind, I would appreciate a sign. 

Thanks.

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@elsa 

I'm so sorry.  I hope your friend who had a stroke will recover. 🙏

Did you ever check on NMC?  I hope she's okay. 🙏❤

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@warped I did check on her and she's ok.

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@warped She's great. She is over on the tiktok with me. And she is adorable.

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@soup 

Cool!  Any link to each of you there?

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@warped  yes. I will retrieve mine and see if she minds, If I snag hers too Smile

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