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My youngest son has a 26-degree moon in Aquarius. In his 7th house. I don't need to tell anyone what is going on there. Saturn rx at 22 degrees right now. He is radio silent. To most everyone. He and the Cap DIL with the Scorpio rising conjunct Pluto were not doing well last I heard but I would never ask. 

He is a Gemini. He hasn't stopped talking since the day he was able to form a word. He has very little to say now. Work has been a lot of stress. She has been screaming like a lost lunatic (but trust me he is no angel and who knows what he did to cause it! I understand both sides) 

She has Uranus transiting through her 7th. 

Do I need to say more? 

Brutal. The kids call/text me almost daily. I have heard nothing from them. Not that I need to. They are adults living their lives. But I know Saturn moon is hard. 

All I can do is watch the people I love live out their lives and their lessons and shut my mouth because to interfere would be detrimental to their future growth and it took me a long time to learn that. Still, when you love someone, you wish quietly you could do something or say something to help guide or ease the pain of it. We cannot do these things for our kids unless they call and ask for advice. Then you give it but do not interfere. In the past I stunted my children when I jumped in and fixed their mini disasters for them. 

I hope they make it through. They have been together for 15 years. They have more to gain by sticking it out and winning through the energy. So do their kids. 

This has been on my mind today. 

My mother has a Taurus stellium (one part is Uranus in Taurus @24 degrees) Pluto is 3 degrees from her Aqua rising and you know where Saturn is. She has a 22-degree Aquarius moon. Saturn is conjunct her moon right now. She is radio silent. And SICK. In her 80s. This is literally beating her to death. 

I cannot do one thing to help either of them. Hard to be a spectator. 

My transits are getting less intense. I feel the relief. Some. Two years ago I was mortified. Shaken to my core. Tested in every way. I don't know if I passed. I was determined to try. I tried my hardest. And cried my hardest. 

Hope this doesn't kill my mother. Hope this doesn't separate my son from his family. 

 

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@soup This is a hard position to be in. It resonates with a situation I'm currently in. I'm learning to let go and let God. I'm a Taurus so the desire to control is a demon I'm working to transform into trust. I'm finding focusing on self care is helpful, rather than always moving towards the other as a sort of reflex action... Is that the 2nd/8th house journey perhaps?

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Someone emailed to tell I should not denigrate bulls, per my newsletter. I responded to say I was married to a Taurus and I ride him every chance i get.

People are nuts! I don't take orders. Just unsub!!!

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@elsa lol great comeback!

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@la_sirena not really. She responded, "Poor guy".

 

I have no clue who this is by the way.   Just random bitch-mail. 

It's a good reminded not to send people bitch-mail though.

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Well it was funny. Bitch is just miserable. Oh well. 

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@la_sirena thank you!

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@elsa What does that mean? Denigrate bulls? Do they think you speak poorly of Taurus? I have never heard that once here. In fact, you speak highly of them. What do they mean? I suppose it doesn't matter. How could you understand anyway....

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@soup this sky is a nightmare!  Duck, cover, defend! Smile

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@elsa I have done my best to just keep my head down, keep to myself, cut off SM where anyone could actually speak to me on it (closed FB and no comments on insta & TT) answering tx mssgs from the grandies only. I don't want any part of it. I still have 3 more degrees of Pluto in Capricorn haha  

... It is a nightmare. Duck cover defend is right.... add block, silence and amputate 🤣 

People are miserable though. I am not particularly miserable right now and I completely understand misery. But a lot of people are. I think the media is just sending ppl off the reservation. For example (politics excluded cos...no way going there) every type of bacteria/virus/and pox seem to be available to catch now, and all of them at once 🤣 🤣 I'm just trying to avoid getting polio at the Kroger 🤣 (I am being sarcastic jkjk) 

Needless to say.... movies, music, books or outside. That is it for me. Told husband... if you are going to listen to the news, please wear headphones. 

 

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Posted by: @soup

if you are going to listen to the news, please wear headphones. 

 

Good idea!

I've come to understand, if it's on the news, it's not important. If it's important, it's not on the news!

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@elsa I was talking to Allie about this sensational news nonsense. She pointed out that once they figured out fear sells... it's been on ever since. She said they make a lot of money trying to scare us. 

So headphones. I'm out. 

 

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I’ve been shredding old papers.  Been a long time coming. I just hated the thought of getting into it.  I store too much for too long. My Taurus rising with Jupiter on the Ascendant?? 

Also, I changed out the wheels on my office chair to the roller blade rollers.  The chair does move more smoothly. I was looking for a wood floor protectors and these wheels kept showing up on searches. I made the change. 

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@sue-ellen I did the same sue ellen.... when we moved it took days to go through all that paperwork.  He ended up bagging it and taking it to a shredder place.  Same with my attic.  What a job. For whatever reason I kept the basement pretty clutter free... but I bet I had every item from every thing my kids did their whole life.  Taurus moon 🌙 we believe we unloaded 75% of our belongings when we moved.  I can't imagine if we'd waited till we were older.  Now when we buy something we agree... if something comes in, something has to go out.  No release... no purchase.  We haven't bought anything in a long time 🤣

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Currently stuck in visa hell :(. It's frustrating.....just how much of the travel industry is currently jacked up. Here's a picture showing avg wait times for us visa at different embassies around the world

FYr tTfWIAIqsRn
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Posted by: @sue-ellen

Also, I changed out the wheels on my office chair to the roller blade rollers.  

I've never heard of this. Off to search!

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@elsa  Amazon kept popping up wheels when I was searching for floor protectors. I bought the ones from The Office Oasis Store. Through Amazon.  This same company also sells replacement office chair parts, like the cylinder. I don’t see it now, but they were selling chair arms earlier.

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