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It's amusing when Sagittarians get jealous because that's one sign that you don't usually see that behavior from, at least I've never seen it. My Sagittarius Sun guy friend asked me what my weekend plans were and I said I was hanging out with a friend of mine, he started asking about gender and name and asked if my friend (who is a guy and has a masculine name that I mentioned when asked the name) and I were going to have sex. Never confirmed it because it's none of his business and I'm still amused.
@purplestargirl I couldn't believe how jealous Sagittariuses can be until I saw my Sag brother-in-law getting very angry when someone flirted my sister (they weren't married yet, and my sister was out with friends when this happened)! However, he has Venus in Cap square Pluto in Libra, so that would be the case. Does your friend have any Venus-Pluto aspect?
We're just friends though, which is weird. I don't ask him who he hangs out with when I'm not hanging with him. I hope he doesn't have feelings for me other than platonic because I do have some feelings for him in other ways but he made it clear he didn't feel the same way so I gave up and I'm trying to detach from that.
And I'm not interested in the friend I'm hanging with tomorrow in a romantic sense either. We're just hanging out and doing some drinking. Sex is off the table because this friend doesn't like using condoms and I prefer protection. Not that it's Mr. Archer (my Sag friend that everyone knows him as on here)'s business.
@purplestargirl So, is there a chance that his feelings have stopped being platonic? You'll get your answer in due course. He as the Pluto may become obsessed with you, but your Pluto conj Asc will cut him down to size.
(Off-topic, what's up with people not wanting to use protection? Gosh!)
I have it transiting my natal Mercury right now so I'm not sure about that.
I think Jupiter transits are similar to it as well. I know we have a lunar eclipse Sagittarius supermoon coming up so anything can be revealed during that if I recall Elsa saying that correctly.
@purplestargirl It seems that something will come up that may affect your relationship for better or for worse. If things have been good so far, then your friendship will deepen. If things have been rocky, then the eclipse will settle the dust, but it may be difficult for either of you. It may range from either of you moving out to the change of feelings that I was thinking before. I think that in the next two weeks or so, as I have noticed that's when the eclipse hits most intensely, you will find out.
Maybe. Who knows.
He did ask if I was home from my friend's earlier before I was taken home when I said not yet, his reply was "Damn!" on a text message. He did mention going to get some beer but hasn't been very responsive since sending that text, which was five and a half hours earlier. I don't want him wasting my time if he's going to be like this, acting jealous and excited that I'll be home soon and then nothing.
@purplestargirl For some reason, I think he felt lonely and bored. In fact, I don't know if he usually drinks a lot, but in the time that he didn't respond, he may have done so. I still think that he still has some not so-friendship-like feelings towards you, which do come out when he feels awful.
He drinks and I often drink with him but I also have self-control and try not to do it too much. I guess we'll see if your assumptions are correct on the not-so-friendship-like feelings. And if he wanted my company, he knows by now he can ask for it. I enjoy hanging out with him even if there's no feelings present because we're good friends.
@purplestargirl I think he is struggling with things that he may not even have told you. You will find out soon, as it seems. Until then, well, you can't baby anyone and don't need to. Does he drink a lot? It's apparent that you know your boundaries and have set them, but the guy doesn't seem to even know his own.
I ended up spending the night at his place last night after drinking and having dinner with him and a couple of other people I know from the Irish pub both of us go to. Three of us were Earth signs, with him being the only Fire sign. Lol.
I swear he's a damn human heater. I kept getting hot last night. He has this tendency to get close enough for skin-to-skin contact without realizing it, hence the overheating. Sad thing is, I couldn't get to sleep until there was skin-to-skin contact present and it's never been like that for me.
@purplestargirl My sister says that my brother-in-law is very warm (he has Mars and Sun conj in Sag). Btw, I miss going to Irish pubs, but I'll do so once I get vaccinated, as the time is coming way closer than I expected.
I reckon that the heat may make you feel safe in a sense. The tendency to seek comfort may be present in a lunar eclipse, as if there is a subconscious need for affirming that things are normal as always.
My friend has four planets in Sagittarius, plus his north node and he's a Leo ASC. The planets are Sun, Mercury, Mars, and Neptune. A lot of fire there.
My Mars, my only Fire planet (I don't count my SN or MC), is conjunct his Mars. And regarding the heat and seeking comfort, it happens quite frequently when I share a bed with him, whether either of us are aware of it or not. It's not just because of the lunar eclipse.
His Venus also opposes my Jupiter.
I've gotten into some explosive verbal arguments with my friend because of that Mars-Mars conjunction but we always end up making up without either of us admitting we were both at fault.
The funny thing is that our 7th house rulers, Uranus and Venus, aspect each other as well. His Uranus squares my Venus and my Uranus conjuncts his Venus.
@purplestargirl Weirdly enough, our Moons, which are rulers of our Cancer 7th houses (yes, we both have Capricorn rising and our Ascendants are conjunct) don't aspect each other (his Moon is in Libra, mine is in Scorpio). In your case, there is a double whammy, so the effect is pronounced. Your friendship does not fall into labels, so I suggest that you both let it be as unusual as it gets on its own.
Well I slept nude in the same bed as him last night and was surprised to hear it didn't bother him at all. He did toss and turn most of the night though and knew I was naked in his bed last night. I hope it didn't drive him crazy thinking there was a naked woman in his bed, a woman who has done certain things with him in the past. Lol.
@purplestargirl Mars sextile Venus... oh my God, I had it with a Libra guy (his Mars was also in Libra). His Mars was also conjunct my Lilith, and it was very steamy. Sadly, we were very young and immature, so the constant arguments eventually separated us.
Have you looked at your Liliths?
@purplestargirl I'm rather familiar with Lilith, as it is on my 8th, squares my Sun and Merc and sextiles my Venus and Mars. In the synastry with my partner (he has Lilith in Virgo 8th house), his Lilith sextiles my Moon, and my Lilith conjuncts his Moon, which explains why we started out as a clandestine love affair. My Lilith squares his Merc in Cancer, so he gets a bit shocked but attracted to my advances!
His Venus sextile your Lilith means that he likes you a lot, even though he may not thoroughly understand where you're coming from at times. To him you may seem a mystery sometimes, but he really likes you for that.
This is always the slowest time of the year on this site. It's due to the school year wrapping up and as far as I'm concerned, this is when I have to get everything I want to eat, planted!
It's also harvest for cool season stuff and when I am ambitious (usually), when I cut the cool stuff I replace if with warm stuff, like more tomatoes. I also have to keep an eye on things for pests or problems.
Garden is jacked this year, a little, because it stayed very cold and VERY wet, late in the season. Now it's hot and dry which means I have to water for an hour every night.
I had to go the rheumatologist today (routine). He's in another town so it's a jaunt. We need a new roof post the tornado so I'm needing to put that together. I also have been on a shopping spree of things we've got to have (like new glasses). New tablet. New vacuum. Have to research these things.
I also had to pressure wash outside furniture. I got it done and started on random mold in the driveway and such... broke the pressure hose so I had to buy a replacement for that as well. It's on the way. I just finished waterproofing the furniture which I do every year. This got hung up as well when my spray bottle broke. No clue how or why. It was going so smoothly.
I'm doing consults of course. I have to get a REAL id at some point. The deadline is November. I can't wait until these things are all here, done, put together or whatever.
My husband finally had a day off - he had to go to two dumps, three errands all people hate, like oil change. They found a squirrel has a nest in the air filter of our truck. Ugggh.
I just realized, the gutters will not be replaced with the roof. It's wind damage, which means I have to clean them out or do something... I don't know why it's this busy but this is where I am, what I am doing and why.
Oh yeah. And we have four dogs now. And my husband is allowed to visit his mother now, she's been cooped up all these... more than a year. So we're all just rewinding or unwinding or whatever this is!
Edit to add... I did get four newsletter written. whew
This is awesome.
I’ve read most all your posts and definitely all your blogs and newsletters. You have tremendous faith. I’m glad I found your site years ago, you’re instrumental in the growth of many of us out here. Me personally, within my own Astrology education. You deserve the relief!
You’re a strong woman!
I'm preparing to be evaluated for doing a job I was not hired to do nor do I have any training. Fun Times.
Can you say Capricorn nightmare lol!
I just don't know. It all reminds me of those dreams of sitting in a room taking an exam for a class you realize you never really attended.
Lots going on here at home, too much to explain. I think my housemate is losing her ability to recognize her own house. She keeps thinking she's in her old house and it's freaking her out. so we're handling that situation.
But on a good note: I finally learned how to make biscuits this week!! While I did make scones once, years ago, and a pizza crust, I have always felt like I didn't possess the innate skills to properly manipulate a ball of dough without ruining it, or to make BISCUIT biscuits (American biscuits). I worked at Chick-fil-A for two years without making a single biscuit, and left that duty to the domestic goddesses in the kitchen.
After 43 years on earth, I learned how to make them by watching a video of homesteader Patara teaching her son Gabe how to make "2-ingredient biscuits"--heavy whipping cream and self-rising flour. I thought to myself, if a teenage boy can do this, then I can do this. I made a batch, and gave out a few. So far I nailed it. YAHOOOOO!
P.S., I tried out the biscuit recipe while my housemate was on vacation. That way, I could focus.
@canscocappy I hope you like the recipe! Yesterday I learned that it came from America's Test Kitchen. My parents watch their show, so it's kind of cool that I learned to make biscuits from one of their recipes.
Dementia is very unforgiving. It is traumatic for everyone involved, and caregivers had better stay on their toes. Today i saw a hammer on the coffee table when I came home. She said she was going to smash something in, but couldn't remember what. I cannot keep telling her daughters about every little thing like this. I sense that after living with her for almost a year, they expect me to figure out and handle most of this stuff on my own. (Gotta love Saturn/Moon transits.)
@notmycircus I am already hit by both Saturn and Uranus, ahahahahaha! It's weird. The last time I experienced such a double strike that was back in 2001 or so. I was entering high school. I say that the Saturn/Uranus combo balances maturity and restlessness.
That's a really tough situation!
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