[Closed] Wacha' Doin' 2022
Well I permanently lost Mr. Archer as a friend. I met his new fling and she seemed pretty cool up until he accused me of introducing myself as his ex, which I never did and that I said she shouldn't date him, which again isn't true. I apparently said she shouldn't date him because of astrology. She said she was into astrology and I did pull up their synastry, because she was curious and wanted to see, and I noticed his Mercury and Sun on her DSC. All I said was that one person could feel something more than the other person. She's double water with Cancer Sun and Scorpio Moon and he is double fire with his Sagittarius Sun and Leo Rising and that the basic elements clashed. That was it. I never suggested that they shouldn't date. I said what I saw regarding the astrology. I guess my words got twisted and used against me. I knew something was off the moment I met her. There also might have me being blunt about setting boundaries, being up front with him about what she was looking for, and not to get sucked into trauma bonding with him. And I only said those things because I know what kind of person he is. And what people do with that is up to them.
She was looking for advice on how to deal with problems she and him were having and asked me and Mr. Archer's other friend on what to do. I knew something was off about her because the further I got to know her, the further some stuff she was saying starting to set off alarms in my head. I guess that built-in bullshit detector that Scorpio ASCs are known for does work for me. (I know I'm Capricorn, that Scorpio ASC is just one part of me that I do have and is relevent right now).
I should have listened to everyone here about him. I'm sorry to everyone whose advice I ignored and discarded. I'm such a moron. Sorry again.
"...I was relieved to see his scenario for this year. I was getting tired of forecasting "suckage"."
Me to the mother of a Sadge son.
Stressin! Just found out my brother is bringing a party of ten to my Christmas dinner. I’m overwhelmed by that thought. Making sure I have enough food, who to get gifts for when Im already strapped at this time of year and I literally see these people twice a year and only my brother is my blood relation (my brother married a woman with five daughters and they’ve all had a bunch of kids too) what to do with my sons aggressive terrier.
I know I sound like a brat but I do sometimes feel that my brothers wife and her kids and her kids’ kids leech off of him (he works his ass off and I don’t think his wife has worked a day in her life) and are nice to my mom because they think they’re gonna get some payoff when she dies. I think they’re gonna be disappointed! That’s just my gut telling me that that’s their motivation but it makes me not want to be hospitable. Of course my Libra ass will be hospitable but I don’t like that little niggle in the back my mind (wish my Scorpio planets would just let my Libra planets relax!)
My best friend, a mom like figure of 40 years, got glioblastoma.
I can't visit her much because of the distance and I'm busy with work and kids.
And it tears me up inside. (Saturn will enter my 8th hs in the beginning of Feb 2022, Placidus sys).
She's a wonderful Sun conjunct Jupiter in Cancer 8th hs. Scorpio asc and 1st hs moon.
Sharp, wise and philosophical. Deep, joyful and creative.
I wonder how it's showing in her chart, Chiron in Leo sq Asc, maybe?
I'll spend time with her this weekend and light her fireplace.
Thanks for this thread. I can write here.
I got an award yesterday for my monthly performance at work.
My father suffered a minor stroke yesterday (right when the full moon opposed my n.saturn/uranus on the galactic center) while he is still recovering from an AICD procedure done 5 days ago.
Venus conj Pluto on 26 cap asc makes me nervous. The night before dad had his minor stroke I was romantically engaging a man. The night before my father got hospitalised in Nov I was romantically engaging another man. So now it has happened more than once. I am too scared to even accidentally romantically engage another man.
Life of contrasts continues.
I am in the process of having an app made, which is quick to do, outside of I need an icon. CArRiE is going to work on one. So I will have to get the icon, get the app and then submit to app store(s). Not sure how long it takes for approval.
Also not sure if it will be ready to go re: notifications but I will be paying for the functionality.