The hits just keep on comin'.....
Oh, no! Sorry to hear. I hope he will be ok. ❤️
I'm sorry to hear that, soup. Hopefully its just a benign tumor and nothing more. Its still so stressful. Prayers.
Maybe it won't be malignant, it's a possibility.
Thank you so much....you are all always so kind.
We finally sat and talked about it. Getting this man to speak about it is like pulling teeth.
He is going to go to another GP and get another opinion. I can hardly tolerate his doctor. He was my doc...I got rid of him back in 2015 when he told me what I was feeling was all in my head. I bet he has all the peeps in his practice doped up....
I found a really good GP back then that came from a teaching hospital. He was born in China...and he is brilliant and on his game. He helped me so much. I hope he can talk facts to my husband.
They said he has to have the second scan within 30 days. This will give him time to talk to the other doctor and see what he thinks of all this.
My husband has finally taken his health seriously (for the moment anyway) He has completely changed his diet and his portions. Weight is falling off him. He is walking for 45 minutes every evening....today, the first day....he jogged it. He looks better already.
Of course that doesn't make a tumor disappear overnight but it has made him open his eyes to what is down the road if things don't change.
I am worried. But, we will find a way out of this.
He says he actually feels better. I am sure its because he is dropping the weight. The man doesn't weigh 300 lbs... but he needs to lose 40 right away. That would stabilize his blood pressure for sure. I think those BP meds make him crazy .... moody....
I don't know what is going to happen and of course there is fear of the unknown for anyone.... all we can do is wait and see. And, I can be mindful of what food I bring in this house. I wont bring a thing back in here that he even considers a temptation....
We don't drink, do drugs, smoke.... have any risky behaviors.... and he is too young to be going through anything crazy if you ask me.
What I do know....if he doesn't correct his health now he is going to be in for it when Saturn and Pluto decide to wander into his 12th....
Wanna hear something funny..... you know how he rolls his eyes when I talk about astrology? He said today....I will not get another scan on my body while Mercury is RX .....I literally spit my water across the room laughing.
Someone is starting to believe in energy
There just cant be anything seriously wrong with him....I just wont have it. I am putting my foot down....I am going to will this bullshit away. Let it be me. Not him. I can take it. I don't want him to have to take it.... let it land on me!
Well, he is taking this seriously. I am glad. He is dropping weight, walking or jogging every evening. He has stuck to his guns with food. Eating clean. He actually looks great....he is a good looking guy anyway. He has dark hair and crystal blue eyes and his hair is that salt n pepper that always looks good on men.... (they always look better with age don't they?)
He is trying to act like he isn't worried. But, he is. He did as I asked and got a new Doctor....one that is considered really good in this area... and he has an appointment in two weeks.
They find tumors but they are never in a hurry to do anything about them are they? You'd think this would get you in the door first...but it doesn't work that way.
They scheduled the second c-scan after he sees the new doctor so we will know more soon. In the mean time he is quiet....eating right....reading a lot...crabby.... I just keep cooking for him. Pick up the slack and keep going. I act like its nothing....because....it could be nothing. No reason to be hysterical ....I have really been trying to keep my emotions in check. I didn't let him see me lose it over the dog... he gets upset when I cry...so...DIL listened. It was nice to have her hand over the Kleenex for a change
I don't know how this is all going to turn out. None of us ever know what tomorrow is going to bring....so we have to just get up and make the best of it I suppose.
A lot has happened over the last 5 years. I am a little ragged around the edges right now..... its been nice to have the company of the girls this summer. They really keep my mind off stuff....
Thank you for the update. It sounds like you all are doing everything you can do right now. That is moving in a good direction.