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Thursday, April 23, 2015 - 8:04 am
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After living with two cheaters I somehow thought the answer would be yes 100% of the time.

When someone betrays you so badly I think that mark is left on you and as a result in many ways has everything to do with how you work in future relationships. I'm not sure how you forget that kind of betrayal. It's very painful to live through. And I know I've never forgotten it. Kind of an eye opener here.... and it makes me think of how many times without reason I have lifted a brow when my husband has to go out of town or work late. Yeah, the first thing I think is mf'r you better get up early if you think you are going to fool me....and he has never given me reason to doubt him in 18 years. It's not good to carry that baggage around with you and sit it in front of a good man eek(but I am still going to watch)

I cant believe 3/4 of the men said no....and the ones that did say yes looked like dumb asses to begin with.

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Thursday, April 23, 2015 - 11:29 am
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Yeah this is flawed. Nobody wants crazy.

Elsa beat me to it...do this in a bar and you're looking at 85% participation,  lol.

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Thursday, April 23, 2015 - 7:10 pm
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very awkward watching her asking : /

but um... a lot of them still said yes. which is still crazy to me.

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strawb. said
very awkward watching her asking : /

but um... a lot of them still said yes. which is still crazy to me.

Crazy to me as well. And then you see she leads the "yes men" off-camera. Presumably, she didn't have sex with all of them. Or maybe she did. If she didn't, were there any men who lost their temper over being played like this? And did she get releases from these guys to be on camera? If not, and if this vid becomes viral, the repercussions for someone's relationship is surely contained in there somewhere ... and then it could get ugly. 

This just seems weird on so many levels.

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Strange video. 

The girl seemed to like asking the men. Funny when she had to do finger movements to explain it to some of them.

Out of the ones that said yes how many of them had protection on them? I'm guessing about 20%. Out of the probably quite substantial number that did not they might as well have put a gun to their head and blown the trigger compared to what a woman could do to them after that point.

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I guess I am the only person who finds this absolutely reprehensible.

I could not bear to watch the whole thing. I was assuming by your
initial commentary that there was a surprise ending. I found it vulgar
and borderline harassment on her part.

Yet some here find my lifestyle situation vulgar and reprehensible.

I thought this so called social experiment was ugly and distasteful.
Oh well. To each their own. I have more respect for people than this.
I was not at all surprised by the result.

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I'm not sure what this experiment was supposed to prove or misprove? There's too many variables to weigh anyway.

If they interviewed the men afterward and asked their motivation , that would have made it more interesting and more enlightening. I think it's easy to assume that the men who said no are morally virtuous but until you know the motivation you can't say. Maybe they like big women, were gay or just late for an appointment. And I don't think the men who said yes, are morally wrong either and we don't know their motivation either. Even if they were just purely motivated to get laid, so what? Doesn't everyone want things to be easy sometimes? Some men jump through crazy hoops for sex. I think some women don't know how hard it can be for some men to get sexual attention from women. 

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Sherry said
I guess I am the only person who finds this absolutely reprehensible.

I could not bear to watch the whole thing. I was assuming by your
initial commentary that there was a surprise ending. I found it vulgar
and borderline harassment on her part.

Yet some here find my lifestyle situation vulgar and reprehensible.

I thought this so called social experiment was ugly and distasteful.
Oh well. To each their own. I have more respect for people than this.
I was not at all surprised by the result.  

I've been offered this before and it hasn't bothered me.

More than once.

Although what gets annoying is if the girl holds a grudge if you "reject" her.

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Tuesday, July 18, 2017 - 6:19 am
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Pheonix said "Out of the ones that said yes how many of them had protection on them?"

Holy shit! I hope the girl was equipped for that. Like, if they didn't have protection she'd just go along??? Eeesh.

Anyway, it seems the whole thing is maybe just a bit of provocation. (?)

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Tuesday, July 18, 2017 - 12:16 pm
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Satsun said
Pheonix said "Out of the ones that said yes how many of them had protection on them?"

Holy shit! I hope the girl was equipped for that. Like, if they didn't have protection she'd just go along??? Eeesh.

Anyway, it seems the whole thing is maybe just a bit of provocation. (?)  

In general, the consequences for girls are not quite as rough from what I understand, if she did have a child she can get child support from the father and welfare. If the guy has a kid and does not pay that child support, he can go to jail, even if he is unable to pay. Once in jail the bills carry on stacking up and this is a large part of the reason there are so many people from the African American community. Of course, once there is no father, the problems are only increased.

Of course spiritually the problems can be pretty harsh for the girl having a child with a guy she does not love. But society is disconnected enough for this not to be a problem for many... Their consciences are rationalised away.

It could very likely be faked. Some of the top trending youtube videos have been caught faking them:

t=154s

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Tuesday, July 18, 2017 - 4:38 pm
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I wonder how the results would have turned out if she'd just offered oral and the guy could just lie back and do nothing.

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Phoenix9061210 said

In general, the consequences for girls are not quite as rough from what I understand, if she did have a child she can get child support from the father and welfare. If the guy has a kid and does not pay that child support, he can go to jail, even if he is unable to pay. Once in jail the bills carry on stacking up and this is a large part of the reason there are so many people from the African American community. Of course, once there is no father, the problems are only increased.

Of course spiritually the problems can be pretty harsh for the girl having a child with a guy she does not love. But society is disconnected enough for this not to be a problem for many... Their consciences are rationalised away.

It could very likely be faked. Some of the top trending youtube videos have been caught faking them:

t=154s  

Really? Single motherhood or motherhood in general are "not that rough"? I wish you could walk a day in my shoes. 

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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a woman or man openly pursuing sex although a female always has to worry about her safety in a way a man usually doesn’t.  It doesn’t mean she’s somehow less of a person. We’re all animals and I don’t understand why those fortunate enough to be sexually well fed would disapprove of someone hungry looking to eat and be eaten.  It’s similar to me to those who hear about starving people fight savagely over food yet they think they’d somehow act differently in that situation. Doubt it.

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I wonder how the results would have turned out if she'd just offered oral and the guy could just lie back and do nothing.  

Ha ha. You mean you thought some of them looked at her and thought: 'Hmmm, do I have the energy to get it up'?

If that is right, and not every guy likes that because of "the hair". But if you are right about that, sex robots will soon take over the world.

First thing I would have done is look around for a camera. I'm thinking this video was faked!

On the single mother thing there are girls that look for a sperm donor when they get to a certain age and have been feminists for most of their lives. If single motherhood was that bad they would fear too much the negative repercussions. 

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Phoenix, on the the single mother thing, that may be true of some women. For others, the thought of raising a child alone or raising a child period is intolerable and always has been, feminist or not.

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