Abandoning the desire to be attractive
I’m @ a place where attractive to me is smart, grey headed & reading books, & chitchatting over Astrology, psychology, & human behavior.
Smart is attractive. So is healthy eating, reading, some yoga, tea, walking the dogs, wisdom is attractive and being of service to others is Attractive.
I’m over the ego part of what makes one believe they are attractive.Kindness is attractive. Education is attractive. Mean is ugly, I don’t care how beautiful you may be.
I’m not looking for a partner, so I have no one to attract.
With my Libra Rising, I like so much having nice things - at least accord. to my definition of nice - which does not match most of the time my friends' or partner's definition 😊 I like to change my looks all the time, I'm always attracted to something new or shiny. I also have a Leo Venus, so I like to try on various desguises. It's just who I am, I'm not looking for conventional attractiveness as I'm not even fitting that definition. Even with so much work from home, I like putting make up & accesoires. Definitely, not conventional attractivness in my case... unless maybe I have more a minimal elegant mood and dress like that. But I don't stick to one style... I have a 12 house Sun, so I'm still searching for my own identity 😀