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Why you shouldn't mess with a Sagittarius: The good and bad of the sign
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Monday, December 30, 2019 - 4:49 pm
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I agree with most of what you said. Sagittarius-es can use ‘truth’ and ‘honesty’ as a weapon though, instead of trying solve things in a calmer manner. blackeye_gif

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Every sign and placement has their weapon…

My observation is that Sagittarius doesn’t always have a great immunity or tolerance to their own–Sagittarius often has difficulty hearing an uncomfortable truth, yet little trouble relaying it. 

My favorite response to my Sagi friends? If you can’t take the heat, don’t start the fire.

That said, I love the Sagittarius journey, I don’t think a lot of people relate or understand it. 

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Tuesday, December 31, 2019 - 2:02 am
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I’m just curious about something regarding Sagittarians. And I think this observation qualifies for the context of the thread.

Do Sagittarians flirt with people they shouldn’t be flirting with such as individuals who are obviously married? I’m noticing that with my Sagittarius guy friend with a lady he just met and she has mentioned her husband a few times in conversations with both of us and he just seems to ignores it. 

I don’t know how to breach that conversation with him without angering him because I’m not interested in arguing over respect and boundaries regarding that situation. Hell, his friend/neighbor and cousin caught him doing the same thing the night he met this lady and they looked pretty concerned about that as well. I’m mostly concerned because he’s my friend and that flirting can lead to some pretty serious consequences.

Also he has very little Earth on chart (just Venus in Capricorn and Sun conjunct Mercury in the 10 house)  and is mostly Fire (Four Sagittarius placements plus MC in Sagittarius, as well as one Aries placement). That lacking of Earth could also cause trouble in him not recognizing and respecting boundaries of someone’s marriage.

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Tuesday, December 31, 2019 - 12:14 pm
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Yes, they can be inappropriately flirtatious. Obviously, not all Sagittarians are this way, but like Gemini, they can be flighty, not take things seriously, and be a bit of a flirt!

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Tuesday, December 31, 2019 - 7:44 pm
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Well he is a natural flirt. He’ll flirt with me and I do it back but it’s all in good fun and we both know it. I have my Mars in Sagittarius so that helps with that.

I did speak to him about my concerns and it turns out they’re good friends and nothing more. He wasn’t upset with me for accusing him of stuff because it was out of concern. I really need to hang with him more before I get used to Sagittarian nature.

I do wonder since I have that Mars in Sagittarius but I don’t often express that energy, if hanging out with Sagittarians can help bring it out and I can learn to express it to a degree.

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My Sag Moon/Mars conjunction coupled with Scorpio Venus were incredibly vindictive up until my Saturn return. It was mostly in my head, but I wanted to hurt them as deeply as they hurt me. I wanted revenge. 

It wasn’t until I understood myself better (with the help of Astrology) that I could sense the depth of that Scorpio quality. I self protected and kept my feelings deep inside to keep my heart safe. 

As far as the freedom part, I can go either way. I’m a Libra, I want partnership… eventually lol.  I’m also perfectly content single and may value my freedom more than I realize. 

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Friday, February 21, 2020 - 1:10 am
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What a passionate chart. smile

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Friday, May 29, 2020 - 8:37 am
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My own experience. Repeat… MY OWN EXPERIENCE.

So not generalising or whatever. No knickers in a twist effect please! I am not discounting the fact I have acquainted with a very small percentage of the Sag’s out there.

But Sagittarius in my experience, in my repeated experience is THE most psychopathic or narcissistic sign there is.

The dysfunction never ends. At least Gemini’s KNOW they are being freaks! They don’t exactly feel guilty but they try to explain themselves in their own way.

Sag don’t even realise it. Like it seems to go all the way down that they don’t get their behaviours are completely self centered. The world begins and it ends with them and that’s all that matters.

Maybe they get over themselves when they have kids?

Where am I getting this from? Mostly it doesn’t matter but more recently a male Sagittarius friend I had already fallen out with and was sort of going through this process of weird guidance on many different levels, strange interaction. But eventually I got down to some sort of honesty from the guy and his thought process was so cold I was just flummoxed!

To be fair one in my life at the moment is very nice, very vulnerable and has done things behind the scenes to make my life easier but mostly, I regard the sign much like a tank of gasolline with a match hanging over it.

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I’ve always messed with Sagittarius as my father is one. We used to argue like crazy in my younger years. True, they can throw harsh words sometimes, but I’m good at this too (got a Sagittarius stellium in my 3 house). When we used to argue everyone stood and watched, we were like fire balls. Nobody could stop us or have the courage to end it.

Now that he’s older and I’m more mature, we discuss differently… we learnt the way the other one is communicating and pay more attention to the triggers – as we both have much fire in our charts and once triggered the ball must roll. 

I discovered that I was blaming him too much for his harshness with words while I used to do the same with him, but never looked at my own way of talking.

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My boyfriend has a lot of Sag energy (rules his 5th house, has Sun conj Merc, Mars, and Venus and then it sextiles his Jupiter) very blunt (almost too blunt), honest, strong opinions, loves to learn. I notice when they flirt, they’re not as in-your-face about it as an Aries, or as theatrical about it as a Leo might be, but they know what to say and how to say it that makes you curious. I really enjoy their energy, it’s refreshing.

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