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Why you shouldn't mess with a Sagittarius: The good and bad of the sign
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Thursday, November 28, 2019 - 12:16 am
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The Sagittarius I spoke about in my previous reply on here? His ex dumped him when he got really sick a few years ago and I heard all about what she did and the names he called her because of it. He still calls her a particular name in conversation every once in a while, which I will not repeat because some people are offended by it.

That’s tamed considering what he could do to her! Wow, it’s obvious she didn’t love him.

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Thursday, November 28, 2019 - 12:58 am
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That’s one of two reasons I’d beat the crap out of her if I ever ran into her in real life. I don’t think she did. I personally could never do that to someone I’d be in a relationship with because there’s a reason you’re dating someone. Relationships for me mean I love that person very much.

I know of other stories where he got revenge for people screwing him over. And very creativitely might I add.

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Thursday, November 28, 2019 - 3:23 am
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Whether I would get revenge upon that girl, or not depends on my mood, LOL. If I were a girl and I knew about her, I probably would just flatten her tires out. Heehee!

I have Saturn, so I have to REALLY discern if me taking revenge is even a moral, or good thing. I rarely take revenge out on people, but I also can’t blame people for taking revenge out on others. It’s a natural, primal, human, feeling.

I’ve taken revenge only twice in my whole life and decided after the second time that it wasn’t for me. 

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Friday, November 29, 2019 - 1:48 pm
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I don’t think Sadge cares at all for “revenge.”

 

I have always been puzzled by the exaltation of (negative)  Scorpionic revenge and passion on here. I have a stellium in Scorpio of the personal planets. It is what you transcend not what you live up to.  🙂

Sadge is truly above all that revenge shit.    Don’t fence them in. 

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Saturday, November 30, 2019 - 5:50 am
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A Sagittarius would probably just run for the hills! And if they sense you haven’t changed, they’ll never return! 

Scorpio, on the other hand, might not take revenge but they might get you out of their life. 

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I was married to two of them. I spent around 20 years in the Sag rodeo. 

I am sure this is not for all Sag’s, but the two I was married to loved revenge. It was a sport. They were also the biggest cheaters. Liars too. So, there are two of them I can vouch for. Dated them too. I was all about Sag’s from 18-40 years old. I ended up with one….every time. Every sign has the ability to seek revenge…or any other crazy thing.  Scorpio isn’t the only sign that seeks revenge. All people are capable of it and….. I have two Virgo sisters who are professionals at revenge.  

Sag isn’t anymore above anything than any other Sun sign. 

 Jupiters action is to expand and inflate, to push the boundaries….

However, I have always had good luck in friendships with the women. 

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Sunday, December 1, 2019 - 6:26 am
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soup,

I bet you were a Sagittarius in at least one of your past life! sag

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I think I just had something that I had to learn hermit and it took me a long time to learn it. 

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Friday, December 27, 2019 - 10:19 am
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And this year’s winner of ‘The Best Word Choice in a Post’ goes to soup for the word rodeo! BRILLIANT.

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I’m a fellow Scorp stellium. In my experience, I’ve found this boards to be refreshing. I forget how long I’ve been here (it’ll be displayed on the left pane anyway), it’s been close to a decade.

While it is true there has been recent focus on the negative side of Scorpio, over the years there have been a focus on the good side. I know you’re not making suggestions…. I’m just making a statement on what I’ve noticed.

Soup, Nutsymaclewis (hope I spelled it correctly) and a guy whose avatar is a 1965 Mustang (why am I having a mental block?)…. these are just a few who have been here longer than I, or at least my memory says so. *sigh* Sometimes memory road is quite bumpy.

Anyway…. I hope to read your thoughts on here for many years. Someone (probably soup) will recall the name of the guy.

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I’m a Sagittarius woman and am blunt sometimes, but I’m not vengeful.  I’ll just move on and won’t look back.  Sagittarius men are different than me.  They really are bachelors for life unless they have other influences.  “A rolling stone gathers no moss” applies to them.

There really are differences between men and women of a sign.  I don’t have the wanderlust that Sagittarius men have.  I’m more of a nature girl that enjoys a garden and someone that loves to debate and philosophize about life.

I think Tina wrote that book because she had a heavy heart.  She wanted to tell her  story.

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Friday, December 27, 2019 - 2:45 am
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I have a ton of Jupiter aspects, and I am one of the most forgiving people ever. But I do have a big mouth about people who hurt me…

The Sagittarius suns I have known were the same way as I am. My ex was a Sagittarius, however, with a Virgo stellium and a lot of Pluto aspects. And when he left, he left me in the most painful way and I NEVER heard from him again. That was it. My one attempt years later to reach him was ignored. And this was something he told me from the start about him. But this seems more Scorpionic than Sagittarian to my eyes.

My Mother was also a Sagittarius. She held grudges like nobodies business and when she cut someone out of her life, she never spoke to them again. I see a theme. 

As for Tina, I think her Gemini moon reveals a bit more of why she is so candid. 

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To me, that whole ‘one strike and you’re out’ is a Aries and Scorpio thing. Basically, Mars energy, “One smart alec remark and you’re done!” It’s also a human being thing too.

The thing is, just because someone cuts me out, it’s not always personal. Sometimes that’s just the way the person is. Sometimes, it’s also a sign of an immature person, unless I did something wrong, or whatever.

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I agree, it does seem very Scorpionic or Plutonian to me to just cut someone off. And of course, with Sagittarius being next to Scorpio, there is bound to be a Mercury there or something in the charts of many Sagittarians. 

It is an unevolved response up to a point. It makes sense to do when people really hurt you, but otherwise life is not so black and white. There are people I let back into my life that didn’t fall into the black and white “things didn’t work out once so it’s over” paradigm. But then with a lot of Cancer, 12th house, and Uranus in my chart I am like the most likely candidate for forgiving everyone and returning to exes and old friendships lol. 

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Monday, December 30, 2019 - 10:08 am
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I don’t feel any of this.  Being a 2nd house Sag with Jupiter in my 7th.  I don’t ever out anyone, however my honesty has been referred to as somewhat brutal.  I do have Venus in Cap with Saturn rising (Libra), so the cold hard truth is not something I ignore.  Facts are facts, similar to Elsa’s telling it like it is.  Often misunderstood and always honest.  I am a very forgiving person and my arrow does point up.  Too much negativity and revenge I see from others brings me down, so I usually just change my path.  I guess that could be interpreted as cutting someone off, yet that is not my intent. With my Libra rising, I tend to avoid conflict and aim for more pleasant exchanges.  Everyone is on their own path and I am not one to judge. I look at the actions and move forward from there.  I never want to make someone feel like they have been cut off. I have been cut off and rejected more than I have done any cutting off of people from my life.   If someone has done a wrong to me, I question myself and have always found their actions to be a response to my honesty.  Some people can’t handle the truth of what they do.  So, I have always had the aspect of if you don’t want to hear the truth, don’t ask, because I will tell you.  Not in a cruel way, just facts.  And never in a cruel way.  An example of this,  and this a getting a bit long (sorry), …my great-grandmother is someone I only met once and I was 4 or 5 years old, she had facial hair with stubbles which I noticed when she hugged me.  It surprised me as a child and I remember it clearly.  When I mentioned this to another family member she responded that she had never heard anyone say anything so mean about her.  My response was what?  mean?  I didn’t have a mean feeling about this, that is just what I remember.  I was an innocent child. I never understood her response to me. She had labeled me as cruel.  It felt so wrong.  Does this make me a person you should not mess with?  I suppose that depends on how much a person does not want to look at how they appear.    It makes me a bit sad to read the start of this thread of why you shouldn’t mess with a Sagittarius.  Why is honesty so difficult?

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