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Why do people get obsessed with me? 🙁

oceanvalley
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Hi, I don’t understand why people get so attracted to me to the point of obsession. It’s like a curse and I hate it, I would rly like to read your thoughts about it.
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Elsa
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Welcome!

You have Venus square Pluto for starters.

Search this blog for "Venus Pluto obsession". You'll find a lot of content.

Also the tags...

https://www.elsaelsa.com/astrology/tag/venus-pluto/

https://www.elsaelsa.com/astrology/tag/obsession/

Good luck.

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oceanvalley
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@elsa Thanks! How can I prevent it from happening, do you have any tips?

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@oceanvalley  I don't know that you can prevent it, but you can be aware that you're exuding, all the time. 

I don't mean this in a blaming way. I am talking about being conscious rather than oblivious. 

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@elsa hello, I am new, I don't know anything about astrology, but I have been searching for an answer.  People become obsessed with me to the point they become dangerous.  I don't understand why.  I am no great beauty or any of that crap. @oceanvalley I am SO glad I came across your post.  I always describe it as a curse.  I was starting to think I was losing my mind 🙁 help

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@carey Welcome!

Consider creating a new thread that describes the problem and includes your chart. We'll help!

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@elsa  this is interesting! As someone with Venus conjunct Pluto, and a strong penchant for obsessing and ruminating, I never considered the possibility that others might obsess over me as well.

In a weird way, that actually takes a load off and gives me peace knowing that it might be mutual -- I mentioned in recent post that I can always tell when a relationship doesn't feel over. But now, I almost feel less obsessive about it, as strange as that might sound! ?

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I was looking for Pluto and 8th house aspects in your chart and saw the Venus/Pluto square but Elsa beat me to it. I also think Pluto squaring your Midheaven has to do with it. Is it co-workers that become obsessed with you?

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oceanvalley
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@purplestargirl it’s in any circumstance, rly! The most obsessive one was a teacher.

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Use that Sun Saturn and create some boundaries. 

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Thanks.

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You have South Node in Pisces. Start putting put up those boundaries, like Libra Noir says! Use discernment, North Node in Virgo. ? 

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You probably exude a certain, magnetic, energy.

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