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What sign's shadow bothers you?
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Tuesday, September 25, 2018 - 11:23 pm
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Leo and Aquarius both attract drama if they let their egos take over.

For Leo, drama seems to just follow them. I’ve seen Leo’s whose entire lives were a 3-ring circus! 🤹🏻‍♀️🎪🤡

Aquarians act like they are above drama and have no time for all that foolishness. 🤷‍♀️  Meanwhile, they stir the pot wherever they go.    Controversy is like their catnip. 

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Friday, October 12, 2018 - 7:56 am
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When I went to the circus and met some Leo’s!

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Generally speaking, I think water/earth and air/fire signs don’t really understand the other group so they label them as this or that while it’s just a matter of perspective and priorities.

That said, I can’t get over certain behaviours and lately, it’s been cancers who get on my nerves a lot. They can be sweet, but if you dig a little deeper, they are notoriously self-indulgent with their emotions. They behave like children who have yet to learn that others have feelings too and they are just as important. Really tough to deal with a brat in an adult’s body. What makes it worse is their nasty thirst for revenge for their supposedly hurt feelings. They are also really boring and such gossips.

Now this is my personal experience with a cancer as of now. Somebody else would maybe describe them as sensitive, caring and reliable. It’s really just a matter of perspective and values. A lot of people here dumped on Sagittarians, for example, call them big flirts which is total bullshit. It’s called charm, you have it or you don’t. You like it or you don’t. But flirting and being charming are two VERY different things. All fire signs are charming and enthusiastic. It’s just a lot of positive and fun energy. Has nothing to do with flirting! You’ll know when we flirt with you, though! Again, perspective and values.

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Sag and Gemini both don’t really listen or pay attention to emotional cues and never read between the lines.  This offends me sometimes because I’m Pisces and I live in a world of nuance and sensitivity and they square me….both my Sun and Moon.  Although, I do appreciate them for who they are.

Capricorn- way too cold.  I get hurt by them because they tend to beat down on my insecurities.  Sometimes it is well intentioned but it just makes me feel like I have to shut down my natural way of being and monitor myself.  They interfere with my sense of sponteneity.  They square my Aries Venus and Mars. 

 

ETA: of course there are always exceptions

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Wednesday, October 10, 2018 - 6:49 pm
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Hmmm,

I can see Sagittarius being too ‘in your face’ for Pisces. But I’m guessing you might find Gemini’s emotional detachment insensitive? 

As for Capricorns, yeah, they’re tough cookies, to the point, sometimes, where I sense that they hate emotions, they can’t control emotions so they hate/dislike it.

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Friday, October 12, 2018 - 12:21 am
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Yes I guess it’s like detachment that bothers me…or like flippancy or frivoulousness, shallowness, etc.  

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I hadn’t thought of that but that is true about Gemini’s I’ve found. They do miss emotional cues. If they have disturbed your privacy and you try and back away from them they don ‘t get it.

They get it when subjected to the long term emotional drubbing of the Cancer though.

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Friday, October 12, 2018 - 12:46 pm
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I agree with the missing emotional cues comment too. My mom is a Gemini and this hurt me a lot growing up. 

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I can’t handle Aquarians not giving a shit, like, literally, AT ALL. I’ve dated one before and she drove me nuts when she would just bail on something just because “it’s boring” and/or inconvenient for her, not considering other people or the time and effort or resource put to it.

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Friday, October 12, 2018 - 4:06 pm
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Yup, the ones not evolved will call it ‘detachment’, but it’s just a bit selfish.

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soup said
I mostly like all the signs. Don’t mind their shadow either. And, only know two personally in such a way to make a comment, and of course that is because of my own experience and would not apply to everyone.

Of the two I will start with Scorpio. I know Scorpio because I have 5 planets in the sign and I am older and know the energy. When I was younger I was a force to be reckoned with. But, no one saw it coming. Never started a battle, but certainly finished one if it took years to do so. This can be a deep seething energy with a lot of desire for revenge. And, it can take over the whole life of the person. But, you wont see it coming. It takes a lot of work to control that and let it go. Today, I do it perfectly. Also, hurt way too easily and thoughts of things being directed at them when that isn’t the case at all. Loves way too deeply and its ALL or nothing when in the middle would be just fine. Probably better at hating someone than any other sign I have met. Way too feel-y. Way too much thinking. Way too much analyzing what another person is up to…and way too much distrust of others. Also, going cold, easily amputates if they think they can be hurt by someone. This list could go on and on…. but, there are as many good things as bad. Its just such a load to carry this much Scorpio… All I can say is I cant stand myself sometimes. No one wants to be trapped in that many feelings….

Another sign. I only have Sag. They are full of SHIT. (the ones I have met) They are all smiles and sunny and all that bullshit…..but they cheat, lie, are over the top in action and delivery. Con artists. Drama. Have 300 best friends that they talk shit about the minute the person leaves the room and have such an over inflated sense of self worth….. I think Brittany Spears when I think Sag…or any man I was stupid enough to date (always Sag) and I married two of these bigger than life liars that have to go on a trip 600 times a year of have 200 people in your back yard every weekend. Lying liars. Full of shit. But, that is the Sag’s I have had in my life and of course you know that happened because I had something to learn from them. I could go on and on and here is the thing…..If there is a Sag in the room I am immediately attracted to them. Like moth to flame. I love those bastards HAHA …they are the MOST FUN ….the funniest, the most exciting and if I want to laugh out loud…its usually going to be with an exciting sunny Sag…..damn Sag will be the death of me. I hate/love the hell out of them. Every one that crosses my path….turns. my. head!!!!!!!!!! kissI love my Pisces husband and we have been together for YEARS but we have never had the ball busting FUN together that I have had with those damn Sagittarians. You’ll have a hard time tying one down. You may think they are tied down, but that is never the case unless they are OLD. God bless the sign that is a curse to me.

When I think of Sagittarius I think they are so opposite to me. They want 1000 friends…. that is a big NOPE for me. They want 100 people over on the weekend….NO…my home is where I recharge and heal. They want to be on the go go go and I am a homebody. They are all smiles and handshaking and I am Wednesday Addams haha with the resting bitch face LOL…. They reach out and meet everyone (even when it may be phony) and I size everyone up with a ruler before I go near them. So….that is the reason. Sag burns me up within a year…. and like a true Scorpio I will hang on to a relationship whether its dead or not till there is nothing left as to not fail or something. A Sag has never left me. But, I divorced two. Both still try to contact me. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO…. go work a room!  

I am a sagittarius, and I really only have a few friends that I talk to regularly. My Venus and Pluto are in Scorpio so I understand where you’re coming from. I do lie but only to save my ass or someone else’s. Take for instance although I am 28 years old, I still live with my parents. If I am going out with a male friend, I don’t tell my mom who I am hanging out with out of habit. Done that since I was about 13, being asked questions about this friend and if I have feelings for him blah blah blah. Would rather stay single anyway. Also I am introverted if that helps and my moon sign is cancer with an aquarius rising. Water and fire, sometimes I even doubt everything and I cannot stand people at times. My own thoughts keep me company enough. 🙄 [I am working on getting my masters in character design] 

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Saturday, October 13, 2018 - 3:29 pm
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I love Sag TOO much…that is my problem LOL

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Thursday, October 11, 2018 - 4:38 pm
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My own sign, Pisces. Arrogant.

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Friday, October 12, 2018 - 12:22 am
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No way….my pisces is always striving to make my fiery parts more humble.  

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Friday, October 12, 2018 - 7:39 am
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Royal_Neko28 said

I am a sagittarius, and I really only have a few friends that I talk to regularly. My Venus and Pluto are in Scorpio so I understand where you’re coming from. I do lie but only to save my ass or someone else’s. Take for instance although I am 28 years old, I still live with my parents. If I am going out with a male friend, I don’t tell my mom who I am hanging out with out of habit. Done that since I was about 13, being asked questions about this friend and if I have feelings for him blah blah blah. Would rather stay single anyway. Also I am introverted if that helps and my moon sign is cancer with an aquarius rising. Water and fire, sometimes I even doubt everything and I cannot stand people at times. My own thoughts keep me company enough. 🙄 [I am working on getting my masters in character design]   

I love Scorpios. I have many Scorpio friends. I dont mind the lying because I know when you guys are lying (12th house Double Virgo with Scorp’ Venus) and know sometimes you do it to protect yourselves.

And I try to overlook the secrecy as long as both lying or secrecy doesnt hurt me.

But the worst aspect can be the arrogance. You guys tend to size people up and decide who is worthy of the truth and who isnt. 

Scorpios justify their amputating and lying because the person is deemed not worthy of their truths and time. Sometimes(not always but) its misplaced. Theres enough hurt in the world without Scorpios running around judging people who arent as strong as they judge they should be and feeling justified in treating them like crap. Protect your boundaries sure…but they have enough of their own pain. Inflicting more doesnt help.

Virgos are no walk in the park either. We’re preachy. The men are SO not like the women. I never met more men that cheat and manipulate. The women can be pains in the asses but the men can be oversexed cheat and lie.

Now listen, like I said. Im a Virgo. I see it in my own sign. We dont amputate. Like Elsa said its the death of a thousand cuts then you are dead to us.

Ive made that better in me. But if you brutally hurt me. I will disappear from your life and will make damn sure you dont exist in mine. But I dont exact revenge. I know there will be a cold and eventual  backlash.

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