Women friends? I love Pisces, Cancer, Virgo and Aquarius.
Scorpio Sun women are too intense for me, but I like them. I have no desire to look in the mirror when I am at lunch with someone.
I love Scorpio moon anything... men or women.
Men? First attracted to? No one even wants to hear it. I adore Sagittarius but all fire sign men. That is on first glance. For keeps. Well, I will take Pisces. To live peacefully with for the long haul... Pisces. I have never been with a Cancer or a Scorpio man but have met fire men with both of those heavy in their chart. Sag man with Scorpio moon? Well, hell... I probably married them all already. Mistake yes, but I did.
So, man? Pisces! (bonus) they all have these gorgeous liquid eyes.
@soup I love your description of Pisces! It encourages me that finally I have made a good choice.
BTW, I'm a Virgo sun with Cancer rising... ?
@anom16 They have the most soulful liquid eyes. And the ones I have known are good people. I know they get the rap of alcoholics and drug users but that is not true of my husband. We have never had any alcohol in the house, ever. My best friend Pisces was good to the core too. I mean, so loving and good... all the way to the bone. When they love someone, they really love them.
My very closest and best friend of my lifetime is a Cancer sun. But, I have found a really good friend in an Aquarius over the last few years. (she and I have moon Pluto) She's pretty much my favorite person right now.
@estella ? ? ? I have been married to Sag and Pisces. I am currently with the Pisces for decades.
@soup Pisces men are very soulful but if I have to put food on the table and raise a family, which I do, he wouldn’t be my pick. Sorry but Pisces and too much 12th house requires Lancelot or Joan of Arc charging to their rescue.
@estella I agree. When I married him, he was def not a go getter. I had only had experience with fire sun men. They haul ass. Amazing providers. But they were also bossy and ran me into the ground. Lacked intimate passion. So focused on work I never saw them. Which mostly was a good thing.
Not only that but my Pisces is 11 years younger than me so when I married him it certainly was not for money. HA. He moved into my home, and I out earned him.
Around 2015 I boycotted the whole big harry shit. I said...NO MORE. I stopped doing yard work. I stopped doing a lot of things. It's a long story but I just said... I am not your mother, and I am not doing this shit anymore and I stopped.
Because he did so little at home, when it came time for us to move, he was mortified at the repairs and things he had to do for this to happen and I flat refused to help him with it. Why? Because I had spent 20 years asking for help. If he wanted to take the new job and move .... he had to do it. He was so pissed.
He does have Mars in Aries. So, he does have spurts of inspiration to do things. He also has a Capricorn moon. You know a Cap moon is a worker. Otherwise, if I don't stay on his ass, he does nothing. Work.... but nothing else.
Hes smart and earns a good living now. And is excellent in his field of employment. But it took years for him to get to this place. He wanted to bitch about me retiring. I said... don't even open your mouth. There will be a war.
I love the man. Very much. But I find them to be unorganized and messy. And don't get me wrong... Pisces are my loves. And I know it depends on the birth chart. But they are off in left field. They need their down time - alone time. They are dreamy and just out there. I suspect usually pining away about their ex that they didn't want in the first place. They romanticize everything. I love that... but I have to clap my hands together and say SNAP TF out of it more often than I like.
Flip side- he is loving and thoughtful. Has never forgotten a birthday or anni. He writes me poetry. He is very talented art wise. He is so amazing with our dogs. The man will rock a sick dog in a rocking chair until its well. He would run and help my kids with one phone call. He was patient and kind to my children. Understanding. Never ever did he raise his voice to them. And they absolutely adore him.
Fire Sun husbands... we weren't allowed to have a dog. It might mess up the perfect white carpet and white porcelain tile ....
I'll take the dreamer.
I have 5 planets in Scorpio with a Cancer rising and a Taurus moon. My Venus is in Scorpio and his is in Pisces. It works It works so well that we have been isolated together 24/7 for almost 2 years (he works from home)
Lancelot or Joan of Arc charging to their rescue.
I know.... ?
@soup You could be describing me, although my husband is a Leo 12th house Sun and Pisces Moon. I have to work for him (as in professionally) and do 85% of child raising (that would be a generous attribution btw) and 99% of home stuff: If something goes wrong, I better know how to fix it.
Our 17 year old DD has described us as “work buddies.” We compare and compete to see who does more. Almost invariably, he awards himself the podium prize. Leo Sun for you. For everyone else, he can give his last drop of blood. That’s the Pisces Moon. ?
For me, for guys, the majority were Scorpio and Virgo Sun. Especially Scorpios have been a constant over the years. The instant attraction was almost always reciprocal with them.
I'm a Virgo Sun, Libra Rising with a 12 house stellium w. personal planets. I've always thought Scorpios probably mistake me for a Pisces with such a strong Neptune in my chart ?
For women, I make instant friends with Taurus and Capricorn Sun. I also have Scorpio and Aquarius Sun among my very close friends with whom I clicked fast.
I also like Leos a lot (Leo Venus here) and always felt they like me back, but it never turned into something more intimate/ close relationship.
Despite being a gregarious person, I probably only have a couple of close friends. The one I interact the most with, is an Aqua Sun female. She has Jupiter on AC opposite Moon and Pluto, Uranus in the 7th. I have Uranus on the AC, am a Cancer Sun, Scorpio rising, with an exalted Jupiter in the 9th.
By and large, I seem to attract Aqua females for friends. Second most common sign is Leo - which are more “fun time” buddies; we go dancing, merry-making etc
My other close friend has a Leo Moon conjunct mine, a few other helpful synastry aspects. She’s a Scorpio rising Scorpio Sun conjunct Neptune, both planets conjunct my Ac. We have rapid-fire exchanges of intel and witty, often sarcastic banter.
I tend to be attracted to Virgoan types, for their intelligent, helpful, modest natures. It’s the opposite of all my Leo - but I do have a Virgo Mars. But their low self esteem tends to be a bother.
For men, I prefer them tall, intelligent with a general clean cut and tidy look. Well-made ultilitarian clothing, no tatts, no cursing, a refined overall manner. Could have to do with my Venus and Mars having progressed into Libra over 13 years ago. Could I be describing a Libra male? ?
Definitely Leo. I'm drawn to them. They stand out. So full of life.
For men, I prefer them tall, intelligent with a general clean cut and tidy look. Well-made ultilitarian clothing, no tatts, no cursing, a refined overall manner.
I was thinking Capricorn when I read this ?
@calliope I do have Venus conjunct Saturn in Leo. Also a packed 10th, which is traditionally ruled by Saturn. So maybe you are picking up on that? ?
@estella I was feeling the Capricorn vibe. I don't know if I picked on your Venus-Saturn. I have Capricorn IC, a strong Saturn, and a very close Cap friend, Cap energy feels really good to me. Maybe my reply was based on a mix of all of these ?
@calliope Must have been! ? We are quite sensitive to the energies we ourselves posses.