What aspects in a person's chart would indicate toxicity?
I've been wanting to ask this question for some time now. How do you deal with it? Especially if it's a work relationship and you can't avoid the person all of the time. I really need help with this. Also, I don't know if this person is toxic to only me, but it's hard to not think that when I see them being nice to everyone, except me. Maybe I'm the toxic one...
70% of my family members had Pluto aspects. :Ducks:.
Of course that's only one planet and one aspect of the planet!
I know and work with someone toxic...
Virgo Pluto Rx conjunct Uranus Rx/Lilith Opposition Pisces Chiron with an Un-evolved Scorpio Moon conjunct Neptune. Crazy Toxic.
I myself was once was an un-evolved Scorpio Moon, incredibly toxic with my nasty dark moods and I didn't care who I affected. I'm not emo like that anymore, Thank God!!
Also, very un-evolved extremely possessive/clingy insecure Cancer Moon/Venus/Sun/Pluto. Parasitic if you don't know how to handle or take care of a Cancer properly. Anyone with repetitive unresolved resentment/trauma towards someone or something from the past is a red flag for toxic behavior.
Those are some of the things I've noticed.
The person sees you as a red flag because they are somehow scared you might be doing a better job. It can be pretty unconscious. Or you remind them of someone who has hurt them or caused distress. Often these people don't understand why they treat you a specific way because their projections run quite deep in the subconscious mind.
The toxic person I dealt with at work has Mars/Uranus/Pluto in Virgo, square Gemini Moon and opposite Saturn. She went after me to try and get me out of there and was quite obvious about it when it came to coworkers... when there were no supervisors around. I wasn't saying a word to anyone about what she was doing; the only thing I told a new person who was noticing all of it was that this woman wanted to be popular (not in itself a bad thing). One of the supervisors told me that apparently she was demanding to be seated away from me because she "didn't know why I hated her". IOW, she was showing one face to coworkers and me, and another to the supervisors.
Her T-square aspects my Sun/Moon midpoint, Asc/MC midpoint, and my Mercury/Jupiter conjunction.
I'm not the only person she's gone after. She also targeted another disabled person in the department, as well as another coworker who believed they were friends.