Oh man, I love and hate this topic.
Studying history for so long as taught me that humanity tends to do the same things, like the same things, and fall into the same traps over and over. I don't think there's anything nefarious there - people are just the way they are, and human nature puts the collective into similar situations again and again.
When it comes to entertainment and celebrity, it starts to my skin crawl. I mean, I understand story templates and things like that - the hero's journey or enemies-to-lovers stories or other tropes are always going to be in play. But those templates are popular because them mean something and speak to something essential in the human experience.
But celebrity clones, every movie being the same, and reality being influenced by sci-fi (most sci-fi stories are warnings and allegories, for goodness sake!), is truly repulsive. With how thoroughly vast life is, are we really saying that these small slices are the only ones worth representing? Or are they just the ones that people think will make the most money the fastest? And with how much weirdness the internet has given us access to, how has our culture managed to homogenize even more? It boggles my mind.
I see this everywhere and it’s really boring. All while knowing I, too, am embedded in it. Or it’s embedded in me.
Funny, I was at a bachelorette party on Saturday, sitting at the table with the mother of the groom and people I knew from her Christmas parties, a couple women I see frequently. We all weren’t sure what to wear to the event. And we were talking about shopping for clothes. I said, I always have an idea of what I want but I get to the store and it doesn’t exist in the current season. I am, by no means, a fashion person. I ended up wearing a dress I’ve had 25 years, don’t know, don’t care if it’s in style.
But you can see how we can be limited and forced into boxes unless we can do things ourselves (I suck at sewing).
Have you noticed the robotic narration in ads with questionable products? Or the narration overlay in TikTok videos? I don’t have TikTok so I don’t know if it’s part of the app, the way the narrative voice is on a GPS. But it just sounds like dystopia.
And how many times have you been traveling in a car with navigation, you’re having a conversation with the real people in the car, and the voice comes up to give the next set of directions, and everyone goes silent, as if on command. I understand that you need to hear the next turn but I’m feeling the same way I feel when a child who hasn’t been taught manners, comes up and interrupts others, demanding attention, and distracting everyone.
I hate it.