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redbird
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[Image Can Not Be Found]Very concerned. Will make an appointment with Elsae. Just wanted some advice.

our son doesn’t see his potential. He’s an amazing man. Can anyone guide me today please? I need to reach out to him (or not) depending on what mood he is in? He is an amazing person. Angry ( moody ).... never know who’s going to walk into my door or text or call me? Thanks in advance 

 

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You mention his anger, moodiness.

Perhaps you should couple together healing, in regards to why he is truly angry, and potential. His anger may be blocking it. But it's hard to give advice as family member. It may have to come from another person.

For instance, my mother abandoned my sister and I at age 4. Unbeknownst to me, I walked with extreme anger inside of me for over 2 decades, repressing it at times, other times not. A stillborn child resided within me.

My potential was blocked due to me approach to the world and myself. Once I discovered the source of my anger, I was then able to progress as a person, intrinsically and extrinsically.

Stuff like this is difficult. People are difficult, and interesting. You know him better than we, but that is what makes this difficult as well.

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DarkAquarian said
You mention his anger, moodiness.

Perhaps you should couple together healing, in regards to why he is truly angry, and potential. His anger may be blocking it. But it's hard to give advice as family member. It may have to come from another person.

For instance, my mother abandoned my sister and I at age 4. Unbeknownst to me, I walked with extreme anger inside of me for over 2 decades, repressing it at times, other times not. A stillborn child resided within me.

My potential was blocked due to me approach to the world and myself. Once I discovered the source of my anger, I was then able to progress as a person, intrinsically and extrinsically.

Stuff like this is difficult. People are difficult, and interesting. You know him better than we, but that is what makes this difficult as well.

  

Sir. My son was born on 8-30-1988. At 833 in the evening in a Tuesday Evening. In Chamblee, Georgia.

he is such a blessing to our family. The beat off all kids. He’s got so much anger although. He’s got wag too much ptsd. Unfortunately he was at the exact right time in very sad events. 
please I bed you. Do you see anything that sets him apart? He’s really a perfectionist, amazing husband, but he has night tremors and he suffers in ways? Can you Tell me a kid him before I make apt with Elaea? Please heart 

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It would be best to setup an appointment with Elsa. Should could give some straight, deep insight.

You soon is having Pluto, Saturn, and Jupiter squaring his natal 1st house Aries Moon, and opposing his 5th house Cancer Venus (more so Pluto at this point). This is some respect is about personal, shadow, transformation and integration. Something must die for something else to be reborn. He has to learn to be clear about his needs and relationship needs too because stuff gone ignored will rise.

Chiron transit is conjunct his 1st house Mars. Could help him learn about how his reactions affect others.

Neptune is conjunct his ASC. Was is in his 12th house, now in his 1st house. Can lower ones defenses, open towards compassion trust, but can bring confusion or deception in relations.

It will take time to read etc., but pull the trigger and contact Elsa.

PTSD is hard, very hard, to deal with. My father, grandfather, uncle, and 2 best friends suffer/suffered greatly from it (we all joined the military). It can be alleviated, but not overnight.

Elsa is embedded within that community too. Her husband is also prior service.

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With Moon in Aries aspecting Uranus, his emotions are easily triggered, and Mercury at 0° Cancer he might take everything very personally, he may even think he's being personally attacked. Mars in Aries 1st house is aggressive, but with Mars in retrograde, that aggression is often turned inwards, on himself.

Because the Moon is heavily involved in this, I'm not sure you as the mother (Moon), would be the best person to help him.

So I agree with DarkAquarian ..."hard to give advice as family member. It may have to come from another person"

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