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Saturn/Pluto 1982 what happened to you?
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Thursday, February 8, 2018 - 8:21 pm
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Fell in love with someone who was NOT at all anyone I expected even to like, much less love…what will transpire this time around? Who cares – it has been one hell of a great ride!

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Friday, February 9, 2018 - 4:59 am
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(((soup)))

it’s good you got out of there and life is good to you for many years now. your story is heartwrenching and the pain you went through and no one helped you is terrible. 800 people knew but the didnt do anything? i notice that with small towns, they seem to mind their business.i went through a similar situation, isolated in a small town, beaten repeatedly, but kept quiet. he made sure the bruises and scars were not shown. 

glad that everything is really good for you, you deserve happiness.

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Friday, February 9, 2018 - 6:39 am
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November 1982? I was probably being fitted for my flower girl dress, lol. Mom got remarried in December 1982 and I shared flower girl duties with my sister. 🙂

Mom had filed for divorce in May 1982. I imagine it was finalised by November. 

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Saturday, February 10, 2018 - 12:56 am
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((((((((((((((((((((((((everyone)))))))))))))))))))))))))

thanks for taking the time to respond. endings seem to dominate.

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Saturday, February 10, 2018 - 7:56 am
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(((((((((Hugs for everyone too)))))))))

Daaaaaamn. Just finished reading some of the stuff y’all went through. Saturn/Pluto’s no joke. 

Now that I think about it, my sister and I lost contact with our birth father around that time. Not sure if we were purposefully cut off (by either side of family) or he could no longer find us. Everyone I talk to from our families gives me a different story. Wonder if we’ve been lied to on some level. All I know is we didn’t see him again for about 25 years. 

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Saturday, February 10, 2018 - 1:05 pm
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Wow, these stories are all so intense.. 

I wasn’t born yet, but had I been it would have been right on my ascendant. My sister was born with the conjunction, in a time/place where there was war going on and survival was at stake. 

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Soup, that is a scary story. Glad you made it through. I can’t imagine the stress.

My older sister was born 4 days before the exact conjunction, so I know that energy all too well. I have stressful dreams about it/her regularly. She has 4 Scorpio planets in her first and that Saturn/Pluto in her 12th (conjunction my Pluto). My Gemini sun and Venus are inconjunct her Scorpio Sun/Venus/Mercury. My 12h mars/Saturn are conjunct her sun/Venus, and my moon/Mercury oppose it. 

Our relationship is non-existent. She hasn’t said a nice thing to me in a decade, since I stood up to her for tattling to my mom for not doing what she wanted (my mom’s sun/moon are the same signs and degrees as her moon/sun). My mom took her side and got on me about it. We were 24 and 26 at the time. To this day I am blamed for breaking apart the family. 

Oh, and what she wanted to do was go out partying til 4am. I was leaving at 1am. It turned into tearing me apart for dating a guy who had dated my roommate (who they never met) a year earlier. I was called a tramp etc. That guy and I are now engaged. 

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Married to my first Husb, Got my first management position, so stressed out trying to keep my job while ex going to school and dealing with his abuse.

 How do we scorps end up in abusive situations? My Mom was abusive as well. Born into violence,live in violence.. I am so glad to be free of that for 20 years.

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Married to my first Husb, Got my first management position, so stressed out trying to keep my job while ex going to school and dealing with his abuse.

 How do we scorps end up in abusive situations? My Mom was abusive as well. Born into violence,live in violence.. I am so glad to be free of that for 20 years.  

I watched violence as a child. Was subjected to it as a child and then lived in it for years as an adult. Lots of beatings, slaps, punches. It stopped in the 90’s. I will never tolerate it again under any circumstance.

I stay so far away from it now that small things give me anxiety. My son was ranting about something Sunday morning and within minutes I had to tell him someone was at the door and I would call him right back. I did not call him back. It was Sunday. Please lord just let us rest.

I am to blame for marrying this kind of person. I guess I could say I had nothing to measure a normal person by…there was nothing taught at home that would say….avoid this creep or that nut. Still, I am the one that married the jerk. While it was a horrible time it really made me find a way to stand on my own. I had no other choice but to just do it. And, I am all the stronger for it today. I don’t like that my kids had to witness some of it though.

I see these people with these amazing lives…. sugar cookie childhood memories and beautiful weddings with 500 family members loving each other and I have not one thing in my background that can identify with that. My childhood consisted of watching a lot of addiction and violence. It got to the point ….where we just expected it.

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Tuesday, February 13, 2018 - 10:11 am
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To clarify:  my experience did not happen when Saturn and Pluto were conjunct. I have them conjunct in my birthchart; they are in different signs though, Scorp and Libra. 

When Pluto transited my IC, Saturn was on my South Node/Neptune conjunction.  Neptune squares my Sun/Moon and *rules* my Sun/Moon and *also* rules my 8th house where my sun and moon are situated.  Since the 8th house is Pluto’s domain, and the 4th/IC (where pluto was) is the moons domain, and Saturn was on my moons ruler and square the moon in the 8th, there is a pluto/saturn theme.

 That probably made NO sense to anyone. Sorry.

Not to mention, any time I have a pluto transit, i’ll experience it somewhat in a pluto/saturn way since they’re conjunct in my chart.

Anyway, i have Saturn in Scorpio on my I.C. natally, i dont have many happy childhood memories…or many memories at all for that matter.  I’m cool with it now though.

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Tuesday, February 13, 2018 - 11:59 am
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I was 9 and they we’re transiting my libra moon and squaring my sun and ascendant in cancer and aries mars. My real dad abandoned me and my mom got remarried to a tyrant. I am an only child. It was a tragic time with lots of violence and trauma. This capricorn transit isn’t going well either. 😕

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Wednesday, February 14, 2018 - 6:14 am
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My family moved house too, we used to see most our relatives daily and then we were living quite far away from everyone.

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Saturday, February 17, 2018 - 9:01 am
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Wow, soup, my heart breaks with that story!  Hugs!  

Me?  I just turned 22 on 9/25/82.  Got clean and sober November 1, 1980.  Had lost my father in April of 1980.  Went into a tailspin for a good year.  Was hired by Kodak  in March of 1981.  I don’t remember this transit as bad for me but it was most certainly a turning point as I lost my friends (who were still doing drugs), started taking my gym time seriously, working on me, had to reinvent myself. A lot going on in my first house saddling Libra (Saturn/Pluto) and I think a stellium in Scorpio. Not sure if the transit Mars had already opposed my natal Mars (which makes me pissy) and was approaching it as it is now.  I was most likely angry at the world.

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Friday, December 7, 2018 - 6:34 am
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I found this thread while researching about the upcoming Pluto/Saturn conjunction.

Back in 1982, my horrible mother had just remarried (a wonderful man). Although I liked him a lot, it felt really weird to suddenly have a man in the house. And around November 1982 she got pregnant. It felt devastating at the time I found out the news, I felt there was no place for me and other sister in the new family anymore, I felt I was a piece of rubbish.

I was SO wrong. My wonderful step-father was always more than amazing. And when my little sister was born (with a Saturn/Pluto conjunction…), the whole world became even more amazing. She has illuminated our lives ever since.

But now… she just got diagnosed with cancer. And her Cancer sun will be opposed by the 2020 conjunction. My god help us… the fear is taking my breath away.

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Friday, December 7, 2018 - 11:46 am
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Wasn’t born then. 

Some of your storieseek

The Saturn Pluto conjunction in 2020 will be in my 12th house conjunct my natal moon. I’m slightly nervous!

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