Question About 12th House Synastry
Something that crossed my mind tonight when I read a post about 12th house synastry.
If someone has planets falling into another person's 12th house, the house person wouldn't see the planet person's true intentions correct? How does does that work when you have a stellium transiting the 12th house? Does the house person refuse to see the true intentions of the planet person until the stellium has passed?
I have a stellium of personal planets in someone's 12 house, and I feel like they see through me pretty well but I don't see them clearly. I seem to be struggling more than they are. However, they also have some planets in my own 12th. I wonder if its not actually the house person who can Neptune the planet person, not the other way around.
The feeling of I'm not sure if I'm seeing what I want to see or what is really there is something I can't seem to be able to figure out. It's so easy to see what you want to see with Neptune influences and also have blind spots... I seriously hate this stuff as a Virgo. But this is what I get for being under a heavy Neptune transit - I keep attracting Neptune/12 house contacts.
I don’t think a transit would necessarily work that way, it would depend on which planets of course and aspects etc.
I do think that 12th house synastry can be like you describe. I’m actually dealing with someone right now who’s Sun, Moon and Neptune fall in my 12th. It’s really strange for sure. There’s like a general feeling of disorientation and being smothered, but also a type of beauty. I never know wtf is going on lol. I don’t think they do either. They have told me their interpretation of my actions and I’m always surprised at how they perceive me
Actually me and this person have been going around and around for ten years and just as I’m writing this, I’ve decided that releasing the need to figure it out would probably be a positive step.
Is the planet person really seeing the shadow hidden side of this house person, or are they projecting their own fears or fantasies though.
Well, I’ll give an example of me as the house person. The planet person would imply to me that I didn’t think he was “good enough for me”. I didn’t understand where he got that from as he was often the one that run away (not always but most of the time). But I really looked at my feelings and had to wonder if it was true, was I lying to myself etc. The thing is, it might be a projection but that doesn’t mean it’s untrue. So I looked and investigated and at this point I don’t think I feel that he is not good enough for me, at all. He doesn’t feel good enough, and that makes him not good enough but I am not the source. It’s self fulfilling. It’s that “undoing” energy of the 12th. I’ve done things too that were destructive but I think that’s a pretty clear example of how it works.