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Pluto opposing my Venus 2023/2024

Dahlia
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Hi,

I have a question, who have gone trough a Pluto opposite Venus already ? 
I’m now going trough Pluto square moon and that’s hard. But having moments that I can breathe. 

Hoping for lighter transits I was looking forward to. But Pluto opposition to my Venus at 0 degrees in the 10th house . What could it mean ? And he will go back and forth and Pluto will come back for my moon.

It scares me a lot. My relationship is very good. So I hope that won’t be touched. 
Going to therapy for almost 2 years now and still feel I’m not out the woods yet. That’s mostly healing from childhood abuse and mental abuse from my sibling. 
i don’t want to sound dramatic, but I don’t feel strong enough to go trough the beatings of Pluto again. With Saturn ruling my IC I have had enough of that.

could someone share insight? 

thank you! 

Carmen

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BellaDonna
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I am sure if you search this blog &or tags you will find info. regarding that transit... 

I too went through sibling abuse... and I'd say Pluto squaring your Moon is probably helping you to cultivate a new emotional landscape. Your emotions create your reality so and although painful, this is very important when healing from abuse. It helps those icky feelings to surface so that you can transform and no longer be controlled by them and learn to have better control over your emotional being by doing that inner work. 

I would imagine Venus Pluto transit is similar but in regard to Venus-issues... what you value, your resources, relationships, who/what you attract... it transforms that area of your life and the opposition manifests via the other/and 10th external. So you may attract people or relations/situations at that time to help you transform things that no longer serve you.

4th is also your internal landscape, so this theme will continue but more outwardly manifestations via the other may occur to transform your public self, reputation etc (because of the inner work)

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Dahlia
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@belladonna thank you for your answer. I didn’t looked at it like that. But you are right all the fears, anxiety that have been suppressed came and come up. So it’s comforting to look at it like that, that Pluto has been helping me. 

I have changed, but didn’t realize how much. But still frightened of sibling, tried to control me, hurt me. And my partner has been a huge support to me. It hasn’t been easy for him seeing me like this. Hell i don’t even like seeing me like this.

i do a lot of EMDR on the abuse. So much that came out. 
its like a a big bulldozer hit me emotionally. 

i thought Venus was about my relationships, that’s why I am scared. 

again thank you for your take on this. Very helpful! 

Carmen

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Posted by: @carmen

My relationship is very good. So I hope that won’t be touched. 

It will be touched but this is not bad!  Your relationship is likely to deepen and be transformed but it's healthy!  You can't maintain a relationship overtime and not have it change and evolve. People grow together and there is often pain involved in the process.  Just ask anyone whose been married 50 years. It's part of it! People are tested and they pass the tests! Smile

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Dahlia
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@elsa i guess you’re right. Our relationship did change a lot over the past years and i already had Saturn opposing my Venus. At that time sibling got a mental breakdown. So sure it impacted my relationship but it grew stronger.

its comforting to see it like you say. Thank you ! 
Carmen 

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@carmen if the two of you want to stay together, you can!  Through anything!! Smile

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@elsa Yes we want to, I’m so grateful for him and for nearly 10 years. He’s my rock! And we never had a fight during our relationship .

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@carmen Excellent! Smile

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Posted by: @carmen

its like a a big bulldozer hit me emotionally. 

 

the bulldozer is Pluto... but it's re-landscaping

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Dahlia
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One more thing next year I also have a Venus return So does that then strengthen the Opposition of Pluto ? Is it positive?

 

carmen 

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Dahlia
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I mean retrograde in Venus sorry 

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