Wow, thank you for this topic. I have these. I feel like I know a great deal more about my chart now.
NN on my IC - I hear this can mean a big purpose in one's life is to help children. I do pediatric occupational therapy so I help kids regulate their emotions every day and learn to take care of their self-care needs. Making life easier for children. You know how we hear a lot of difficulties in life stem from childhood trauma? My job is to mitigate this! NN on IC makes perfect sense.
Venus on my DC - I am inherently a people pleaser and deathly afraid of being disliked. I'm learning to care less about what others think these days, though 
I have to add something here about Venus on DC-
When I was about 10 years old, I found out what one of my presents was under the Christmas tree because it was a stuffed dog that barked when I picked up the present. My mom was right there. I was so upset because I thought my mom would be sad that I knew what the present was. I had a meltdown and needed to breathe into a paper bag - I knew my mom liked to surprise us and I ruined it (but she wasn't mad or anything). People pleaser to the max example right here. D:
@rapunzelsoldierfish Did I recall right that you have a Pisces Moon? Pisces Moon people have issues around mother (Moon) and loss - because the mother isn't able to be fully known due to Neptune... There is recurrent dissolving/dissolution and confusion around this relationship, so it is very insecure in nature.
@sophiab Wow, great memory! Yes that's right. I have a pretty good relationship with my mom but there were times when she was there physically, but not so much in other ways because her attention was directed to my dad's mental health situation and my sister who has autism.
In the recent past there has definitely been that feeling of dissolving/dissolution - particularly when she first got with her current partner who really doesn't like me.
Thank you for bringing my attention to this way this placement can manifest!
@rapunzelsoldierfish That's no problem I have a Pisces Moon too. With Pisces Sun there is often an absent father situation and with Moon, the mother is absent. Like you say, it's not necessarily physically absent, it can be not being emotionally present enough for the needs of that particular child.
@rapunzelsoldierfish With Venus on an angle you will always attract people, it is magnetic. You could give up all people pleasing, totally ignore people and they will still come to you! I imagine because it is the 7th h it can be harder to see the Venus quality in yourself, as we tend to project 7th h energy onto others to locate it, but once you claim it, and see these qualities in yourself you will be able to rely on it more. I have a 7th h Venus too but not conjunct the angle.
@sophiab I was just going to say that didn't sound like me... and then I read the part about projecting this. You seem to really know astrology intuitively.
It's definitely hard to see this quality in myself because whenever I start to feel like I'm forming a friendship, it kind of fizzles out. Maybe I'm sending out a subconscious message to the potential friend that I'm not really into this, and then they stop seeking me out. I hear this is a Pisces moon in 3rd house tendency. We don't really feel the need to have friends who we always hang out with - it can be more of a chore than anything.
Thank you for chiming in on this!
Taurus Venus conjunct IC, Scorpio Saturn 4 degrees from MC, Cancer Uranus and SN four degrees from DSC. I've always been possessive, private, tenacious about what I value.
Pluto 6* from ascendant 1st h, Saturn 4* from MC 10th h. A lovely square between then courtesy of the year 1974. This plays out by Saturn inhibiting but ultimately shaping the expression of my soul/spirit, with Libra 1st h involved, from being completely invisible to myself and others (I was merely a bunch of others projections), to slow recognition of soul identity and its inherent power. The inhibition comes from my roots (Cancer), family, and particularly the maternal line which created an environment of prohibition against female identity for the sake of security, self-violence due to the effects of being a minority (female) which I internalised and projected onto 'the world' and lived in this imprisoned view. Saturn-Pluto breaks boundaries, it seems for me these are gender, cultural and identity related. The violence women do and have done to each other along the branches of a family tree within a patriarchal paradigm are rarely acknowledged.
I have Uranus conjunct MC, not too close, but I have Chiron bang on the IC.
The nodes -- NN conjunct the MC with orb of less than one degree. I never gave this a lot of thought, although it makes prefect sense, especially when pointing back to SN conjunct the IC and how private I keep my home life. (Approaching) I participate in many community and charitable programs, but I take most of that energy out of the home. That working out in the community feeds my 10th house Jupiter that runs as a singleton. While I have other placements that would be considered a conjunction (Sun, Moon, Venus, Chiron) it was the NN that grabbed my attention.
Good topic!! Thank you.
Mercury conjunct ASC. This aspect just adds more restlessness to the rest of my chart (a packed 3rd house, half of the planets in fire signs). I really need to slow down. On the outside, it's not so visible (Libra ASC, Pluto 1st), but in my mind, there is no pause or peace... it's just too much restlessness too often.
