Not to be believed
This is why I believe in keeping secrets from some people. The secrets are sacred to me but can be poisonous to the “other” depending on who they actually are. They can also be medicine to the “other” depending on who they actually are. I do think that there is a resonance thing in regards to this. People I think probably do know what’s good for them in a way. They will deny that energy that they either don’t need or aren’t ready for. The wrong medicine can hurt people. That’s why I say bye. Not because they aren’t worth my time but because I obviously don’t have what they need. They aren’t the person I need to be working with in this space and time. I’ve learned this the hard way. I’ve also learned that yin is the way to go. Those who are on my wavelength or want to be on my wavelength show up. And of course they ALWAYS offer me medicine too.
"The wrong medicine can hurt people. That’s why I say bye. Not because they aren’t worth my time but because I obviously don’t have what they need. They aren’t the person I need to be working with in this space and time. I’ve learned this the hard way. I’ve also learned that yin is the way to go."
Well said! And it applies to other circumstances too, where getting out (or not even getting in) is the best choice, when you have choice.
As the monkey said to the elephant : "if it don't fit... ... ...."
Yup. I have Saturn-Neptune. I told them the unbelievable, and some believed me, but some seemed to be in denial and kept asking me about it, as if it could be salvaged in some way. I told them repeatedly how bad it was, they thought nothing of it until I spelled it out with a neon sign, they even saw it with their own eyes, and when it was proven without a doubt/became undeniable, they believed me. They gave me a stupid, arrogant person who lied about their experience, never took responsibility, and projected blame. I could tell from day 1 that they had no experience, and they were a huge (hidden) burden the whole time. And now it makes sense why the person demanded that I train them and blamed me for their inability because they lied and had no clue what they were doing. They were so happy about this person and thought they were helping me when this person was so abysmally bad it was a nightmare. Now I'm happy because they listened and hired someone who has the skills and personality this time. But it seems that since we were all traumatized by the first person, we all learned and are skeptical of the new person's skills. I've evaluated and tested them and told them that this one is good because they're experienced, smart, responsible, and humble, but they're holding their judgement until they've proven themselves. They've passed all my tests with flying colors. This person has been such a huge help from day one whereas the other person was such a huge burden from day one. They're supposed to be a help but the first one definitely was not and never was, and I didn't know this new person could be such a huge help until I was able to actually offload some work on them. It's true that you can tell early on whether they're going to work out or not.
I've got Saturn sq. Neptune but I can't say I've experienced this. It's possible I've been oblivious to it but I don't think so. In fact, it's the other way around for me - sometimes I have trouble believing others' perceptions, or some facet of reality. Sometimes I can only see what I believe and not what's really true, and when I finally do, it seems so silly that I didn't see it before.
We're still having a conversation and I realized something astounding.
There are people out there who are COMMITTED to misunderstanding me.
You too, maybe!
I like to believe people who have not had a consistent Saturn figure in their life (aka the stressful aspect with Neptune) have an easier time coming to terms with the fact that authorities can be deceitful.
That's a good theory. Thanks for posting that.
It's sounds correct and the opposite may also be correct. If you've spent time with people who are honest, you're more likely to recognize the truth when you hear it.