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Elsa
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Monday, September 11, 2017 - 12:22 pm
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I’ve not mentioned it for awhile but I still have my horrible situation, as bad or worse than anything I’ve ever faced in my life.

I started going to a support group for this. It’s weird because I am the only member of the group outside of the facilitator.  However, it’s been an enormous help to me, because the gal running this is very knowledgeable.  She spends the whole hour helping me…she’s told me that people come to the group in the winter months.

This is something you have to RSVP about…I called today to make sure there was going to be a meeting. Turns out this gal has quit her job after seventeen years!

She called me back…she’s still going to try to help me. She knows I badly need the help; I’m just stunned by this, really.  She said her husband is starting a business and needs her.  She did not want to quit but then thought she should.

Anyway, she’s calling around for me. I don’t know what God is doing but He’s moving things around.

Luckily I have faith. I truly don’t know how people deal without it. I know that when this door closes, it’s so another can open. Perhaps I have learned all I can from this gal, and same in the other direction.  Or maybe it’s something else.  But it’s not nothing, that’s for sure.

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Monday, September 11, 2017 - 6:14 pm
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It must be Saturn in Sagittarius somehow. I’m sorry you are having to deal with the horrible situation.

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Monday, September 11, 2017 - 6:26 pm
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Thanks. I expect it to get much worse – grim, when Saturn hits Capricorn. Really, the loss is staggering and the Paine; there are no words.

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Monday, September 11, 2017 - 6:48 pm
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(((Elsa))) heart

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Hope it all works out….in the best way possible for you.

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Tuesday, September 12, 2017 - 2:54 am
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*hugs*

I hope this all works out for you!

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Tuesday, September 12, 2017 - 10:58 am
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((Elsa))

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Tuesday, September 12, 2017 - 11:03 am
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Terrible. I hope something  else can replace this. 🙁

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I haven’t heard from her yet. But there are other support groups; I’ll just have to drive further. If I don’t hear anything in a week or so, I’ll search out another option…

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I’m sorry that this help has been taken away from you.

Is there a possibility that this person just have one-to-one consultations (which seems to have been your case anyway), and continue with dates you both could determine, not getting in the way of her new job? Or perhaps this is too much twisting. (Insisting is not always a good idea) Just saying this b/c apparently she didn’t want to quit.

But as you say, this might open a door to something else, different but positive too.

I hope it all turns out well, to help with your problem.

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She’s going to work with her husband in a business he’s starting. I’m sure I’ll find my way. It’s just a shift. I see another group. It’s just a matter of committing to work it into my routine.

Right now, I’ve got to work on the site and get the saturn in Cap class going. It will be all right. 🙂

Thanks, everyone!

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((((Elsa)))) I’m sorry you’re struggling.  May something shift for you soon.   ♥️

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I’ve actually decided not to join another group, at least not now. I went to two meetings; got excellent info from the gal. I just want to do something else instead…like exercise for example. 🙂

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Thursday, September 14, 2017 - 4:22 pm
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((heartElsa))

It’s my opinion that when you have merc/mars strongly associated, that physical exercise is a GREAT outlet.
Warmest Wishes,
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The thing is, talking about it puts my focus on it. I have a very long road to hoe. What I need is diversion / distraction more than anything. Because I’ve been studying intensely for a number of months. I’m pretty educated at this point, plus I have contacts online. So the drive…and then to immerse myself in some group, especially winter time, does not seem that appealing anymore.

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