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misty
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That said, I think the key with surviving neptune transits is to do your "due diligence". To ask lots of questions and trust nothing you're told. In my situation, I sometimes believe if I'd ask more questions then she'd have told me about her unhappinesses; but then I remember that passive-aggressive people just lie to avoid the confrontation. Would I have seen through the lying? I'm not sure.

Further thoughts about the experience are that I believe it showed me how to love deeply, that I was truly capable of doing in a stable way.

I don't think there is anything you could have done.  I've read that neptune dissolves everything it touches.

Strangely also, her reasons for breaking up with you were rather shallow to me. The things that annoyed her were things she could have pointed out, it was up to her to communicate those things, not you.

This transit officially next starts next year at the moment, Im going through a break up from saturn squaring my venus, so i do feel a bit depleted, pessimistic about love. Maybe it will teach me to love again, because right now I feel like I do not

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misty said

That said, I think the key with surviving neptune transits is to do your "due diligence". To ask lots of questions and trust nothing you're told. In my situation, I sometimes believe if I'd ask more questions then she'd have told me about her unhappinesses; but then I remember that passive-aggressive people just lie to avoid the confrontation. Would I have seen through the lying? I'm not sure.

Further thoughts about the experience are that I believe it showed me how to love deeply, that I was truly capable of doing in a stable way.

I don't think there is anything you could have done.  I've read that neptune dissolves everything it touches.

Strangely also, her reasons for breaking up with you were rather shallow to me. The things that annoyed her were things she could have pointed out, it was up to her to communicate those things, not you.
  

I agree her reasons were quite shallow. But people who don't value their inner feelings, get irritated by petty shit. To be honest, I think they were more excuses/rationalisations to justify (to herself) why she'd broken up with me. Her loss.

But ignoring her, I still say asking more questions and do more checking under a neptune transit - don't jus take things on faith or trust. When it squared my asc/desc, I got conned by a professional conman. A damn, good lying Sag who just told lie after lie. I kept believing his plausible lies until I had to accept that irrespective of what he said, his actions said otherwise. If I'd asked more questions and done more checking or set a boundary earlier, I don't think I'd ever have gone through the six months of problems he created for me.

 

This transit officially next starts next year at the moment, Im going through a break up from saturn squaring my venus, so i do feel a bit depleted, pessimistic about love. Maybe it will teach me to love again, because right now I feel like I do not  

Well I hope it sorts out for you. Things can change in the blink of an eye. You just need the right guy to smile at you in the right way and your whole perspective on the world can change in that moment.

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BlueMaggo said: "I still say asking more questions and do more checking under a neptune transit - don't jus take things on faith or trust."

Good advice! (if the Neptunian fog hasn't yet obliterated rational thinking at that point...)

Interesting also that Venus Neptune also has to do with money. A rather disagreeable subject, but goog thing to know!

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This transit officially next starts next year at the moment, Im going through a break up from saturn squaring my venus, so i do feel a bit depleted, pessimistic about love. Maybe it will teach me to love again, because right now I feel like I do not

I think it very well could misty.

I hope you live it and enjoy the experience. Transits can bring so much movement, a time of heightened experience of the energies the planets represent... and Neptune is a higher octave of love in a way, a more broad-based kind of love I suppose. Maybe Saturn is showing you that your heart is closed, too guarded, and Neptune, being a dissolver of boundaries and hard edges, will come and help you open it up... show you what you are capable of. 

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The is relevant with the current situation - Venus in Virgo opposing Neptune in Pisces.

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I think Neptune could very well dissolve Venus in Virgo’s "virginal" boundaries she sets for herself and her tendency to be self-critical. Neptune in Pisces will likely mirror beauty, passion and the creative energy within Venus in Virgo in such a way that she can finally see without rational or intellectual argument to discredit or imprison. It will stir Scorpio, hidden deep within her – as the Virgo glyph tail unfolds, bending, softening in a fluid creative process that reveals her tail to point outwardly instead of inwardly. In Venus' undoing, her Virgo glyph becomes a Scorpio glyph.

What you get is heavenly creation (Venus-Neptune) that can only be achieved through intellectual perfection (Virgo) with transformative passion (Scorpio).

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