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Hands48
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which house should i look for my relationship with my mother? I want to understand our relationship better and to see if these aspect would affect me when I become a mother.

 

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Look for the house where your moon resides. The moon represents our mother. Check out what planets are interacting with your moon & whether they are easy or hard aspects. The fourth house can represent our early conditioning, so take note of any planets sitting there.

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Moon is in Aqua in 8th, conjuncting Sun and Saturn in Cap.

4th house is empty with ruler of the 4th Mercury, unaspected conjuncting DSC.

what do you think of this?

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Hands48,

Learning about your relationship with your mother will definitely enhance your own mothering capacities and experiences (I specialise in child psychology and attachment for a living.)

Personally I found learning about my moon hugely benefitial...

I read charts with WHS (whole house sign) system yet I see you use Equal, or Placidus or Koch. I'll try to read with the placements you share...

 

Moon in the 8th (I have this placement so some of my comments might be of help. I'm not a mother fyi):

Intense emotions. Intense mothering experience. Psychic abilities (so a mother with good hunches.) Some paranoia (a mother with the wrong hunches.) Dreams of being the perfect mother (like moon pluto energies). Inmense mothering abilities: your kid's friends will tell you their problems. Your mum was sought after by your friends for understanding and nurture. There could be obsession (8th house) to become a mother. Fear of abandonment (mother threatened with silence treatment.) Mother interested in heavy subjects or taboo subjects. A great person to have around when dealing with death and mortality. Inheritances from the mother's side or from the mother. Great support through life by the mother. Sexual needs are important. If the moon is well aspected a huge capacity to self-care and meet one's emotional needs. A good grasp of the public's hidden needs. A good BS radar.

 

Moon in Aquarius: a progressive mum, possibly ahead of her time, and strange and unusual and quirky wherever she's placed (except if placed with geniuses.) A good mum to have as a teenager (very modern, understanding, gets the need to individuate, might buy you weed or offer you the contraceptive pill) yet perhaps sometimes very independent and hard to attach to at times as a little kid as she wanted to be free and do things. She wasn't afraid to go against the mainstream. She inspired you always and gave you feminist vibes possibly. A somewhat stubborn mother at times. Low tolerance for boredom (Elsa mentions Aquarius and not liking boredom a lot here in the blog and I used to see this a lot with a friend.)

However her parenting style (moon) might have been radically different from what others were doing and she might have been super attachment-focussed with you, being super available yet doing it by principle/intellectually. Or she might have gone the other way and be a traditional mum when all her peers were working mothers.

You might be super progressive as a mum and need to do it your way (Frank Sinatra's song), even against convention, knowing that if you're happy (and still attuned to and consistent with your child most of the time or 50-60% of the time) your kid will be happy.

A scientific disposition. An intellectual mind who inspires others.

 

Moon conjunct Sun and Saturn: a dutiful mother, someone with good social standing and recognition in the commuty. A boundaried (even a firm mother) who was able to be playful too. A mother who perhaps did what two parents (any combo of gender) do together for the child (a single mother?) A mother who favoured hard work and sound education (for some reason I'm seeing Michelle Obama.) A loyal mother. Difficulty expressing vulnerability and emotions (yet in time they can become experts because of Saturn/time.)

 

Ruler of the 4th unaspected and conjunct the descendant: the only thing that came to mind was a parent who is a partner to you in some capacity.

People aspecting your Mercury can shed light on early conditioning as they'd give your unaspected Mercury an aspect.

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wow Cris, this is a lot! I might have to read it a few times ... definitely resonates with me. wow. heart

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Moon in the 8th - this is all completely true, except the inheritance thing. She was like this when I was younger.

Moon in Aquarius: hard to attach to at times as a little kid as she wanted to be free and do things. She wasn’t afraid to go against the mainstream. She inspired you always and gave you feminist vibes possibly. A somewhat stubborn mother at times.

However her parenting style (moon) might have been radically different from what others were doing and she might have been super attachment-focussed with you, being super available yet doing it by principle/intellectually. Or she might have gone the other way and be a traditional mum when all her peers were working mothers.

 

I am reading this again, and it's amazing how it just depicts my mother. Thank you for your interpretation.

She WAS here, for me, and the most important this was that i must finish school and graduate. She was really terribly afraid i might end up pregnant early and drop out from school. She was like dragon, chasing me not to go astray from this path she had planned out for me. Because of her (not so lucky) love life I can say I am not a traditionally oriented towards family relations and I am comping with this for a while now..

But, since my ASC is in Cancer, and maybe because all of this placements 8th house, I was always longing for a deeper connection with her, for her to be my friend not a boss or my superior. This part I was missing and I think that I still do. And I thank god that this Neptune in my 7th house haven't worked against me so I was always trying to find a reliable, sincere and genuine and partner because i find it really hard to believe people, especially the closes ones.

I do hope I could be a better friend to my kids someday soon Smile

H48

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