Merging Venus and Mars
How do you go about merging these two planets on your natal chart? I have a Venus in Aquarius and a Mars in Sagittarius that are in sextile and I'm not sure how to channel and merge that energy when it comes down to things like sex and relationships. To me it seems like I just want to have fun and be emotionally detached, which is hard considering I have a Capricorn Sun and a Scorpio ASC. It feels like my Venus and Mars are at odds with my Sun and Rising Sign.
I also have an Aquarius Moon if that helps how I might emotionally feel about it all.
Venus and Mars are also indicated by the first and seventh houses. The horizontal axis relates to itself when the vertical axis - the 4 th and 10 th house and Moon/Saturn - is functioning and related. Moon/Saturn affects Mars and Venus.
There is something to uncover and discover when Mars is invested in Saturn instead of the pursuit of Venus.....
A Venus Mars sextile is a great gift. It makes you a good negotiator of conflict...
You also tend to be satisfied in relationships as opposed to someone who hunts a person and then gets them home and says, "Ick".
It can be an Ace in your pocket for when/if you want one. My Capricorn Venus sure wishes it had one lol
I just want to give you a heads up about the summer in case you haven't looked ahead yet.
June 12 brings Mars into Leo
June 27 brings Venus into Leo
July 14 brings them both conjunct at 20 degrees Leo.
There's a lot there that applies to we Scorpio ascendants. There be squares. Lol, among other things as well.
I have Venus and Mars conjunct (in Leo actually, near the degrees mentioned above...I should keep an eye on that). I think the best thing is just to relax and allow them to operate how they want to operate...they will work together when the target is right!