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Elsa
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There are hundreds of "recommends" on the funeral page. It looks like the high school kids will be coming.

I have no idea what to say or think. My perspective comes via my husband who is pretty good friends with the father.  He does not think he is any shape for this.  Like, not at all.

 

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He's going through the unthinkable. Would he be open to joining a support group? 

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We're home. It was flabbergasting... in a good way. I am going to have to write about what I saw. But yes, I have no freakin' idea how they will recover but they will have help.  And the boy was just... young.

It's like a combo - divorce, lockdown, puberty rush. That transition time is hard on boys. Mine went nuts too; they all do to an extent. Just, this... if you know someone as risk, please, please call them. I can just see this kid looking in the mirror at his puffy face and pimples thinking he had no reason to stick around.

It wasn't anger, you know? He went outside so he wouldn't make a mess someone would have to clean. 

We sat with other parents, one on each side of us - we all have sons. One gal had her son with her... he's 21ish. I'm just saying there is a hairy transition at that age, keep an eye on things, a close eye, because this lockdown stuff seems enough to stress a kid to the breaking point.

You know, some of us, really need to be outside,  WE NEEEEEED to be outside. I looked at several hundred pictures of this boy and he was outside in virtually every single one of them. I can't really believe he's really dead and I suspect his family to be hit by a freight train when people fall away and they're left there to cope.

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That is just a horrible, tragic story, Elsa. I can't even imagine what the family is going through. Its good to hear that they have people like you and your husband to support them and offer comfort.

Being a teenager today is much more complicated than it used to be. Hopefully his computer or phone will offer some explanation for why he wanted to end his life. No matter what they find, I don't know how his family will ever get over it. My condolences to them and to you and your husband.

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My husband never has is phone on or near. He missed four calls from the father but did eventually connect. He was thanking us for coming to the funeral. It was gut-wrencing.

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I am sorry to read this. Speechless. 

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