Very frustrating topic for me. I have a triple conjunction Venus, Mars (Aries in my 8th), Chiron in Taurus, which is in opposition Uranus and square to Saturn (Capricorn in my 5th), more than 8 or even 10 years pass between one sexual encounter and another, and it's never pleasant, I always finish being hurt. I suffer from touch starvation. I have no words.
They have to TRUST you...
... Just make sure you're not flirting, subconsciously or otherwise.
I would ask yourself the latter ^ ...
Sadge can be boisterous & competitive + in the 5th house— maybe you're not entirely aware that you do get off on the attention?
If what you are asking is genuine, then for me, I'd get clear with myself about that .. if there's anything unconscious going on.
that was just my gut instinct on it...
I hear a lot of younger women say they don't like this sort of thing, but my Pluto senses ego/power gratification, in other words they are trying to affirm their attractiveness/power to attract... kinda like those that fish for compliments by self-deprecating... so I'd just make sure you are conscious to it all if genuinely wanting to resolve it.
You have power (Scorp stellium) & charisma, just get clear with yourself about what you actually want and then I think everything Elsa said is solid advice. Trust is everything. I steer super clear of those I don't.
I have Pluto Rising in Scorpio— my presence is gonna evoke strong reactions, there's no two ways around it, but I feel like awareness of it has helped ease the reactions over the years... because it helps *me* react less to their reactions, so I don't give away my power to others.
basically, awareness is key...
Scorpio Sun Moon Mercury... SEX ON A STICK.
I feel ya sis. And I don't mean to disagree with any comments, but you do not age out of it. The dudes just get a little older. How do I know? 5 planets in Scorpio.
I am very careful around any men. Never speak to the man and always talk to the wife as she is the wife and not even eye contact with the guy/husband/boyfriend she is with. When I had my business, I was always careful when the men dropped off. I said make sure and tell (whatever name) I will call her for instructions, and I love her....
Maybe some age out of it. I have not. This is a life sentence. It's just the energy and energy never dies.... you just handle is so that you can enjoy women. I even watched how I dressed ... still do. Under no circumstance did I ever communicate with the man. Only the SHE in all situations. Don't suppress yourself ... you cannot change who you are anyway.
The thing that saves me is my Cancer rising Taurus moon so ... mom vibe helps. You have Leo rising... God love ya haha FUN fire... Venus and Mars in Sag....
SEX ON A STICK baby.... that you are. I am living proof you do not age out of it.
Love everyone... sorry to disagree but it is what it is
The energy is what it is. I don't wear a lot of makeup or dress like a tramp, and I never did. You don't even have to be drop dead gorgeous however people decide that today. It's the energy. Knowing this ... you'll work around it. But you have some strong hot momma energy there. I am telling you ... today... at my age.. I still have to be careful. Truth!!!
i have 9th house mars and sagittarius moon (in the 12th house too so i make alot of BIG sacrifices) and i try not to keep energy too " out there" because i know there's alot of bad people out there too. so be careful. I married two bad men, and that must be because of my sagittarius energy, always so out there and wanting adventure in love. i am very jupiterian too but not too much, because i have capricorn and aquarius so that keeps me " restricted" and scared to death of stuff at times.
i know an uncle of mine who had sag venus cancer moon, although he was cap sun and cap mars and he married a gambler and bad woman, who was a theif and when i mean theif she commited felony and stole from the bank she worked in. then ran off from the country and then can no longer go back in the country because she will go straight to prison. I just notice alot of people with jupiter energy fall for bad men or bad people so be careful. of course there are people with jupiter energy that are bad too, but it's just something i've noticed in life. Edit: she was actually a scorpio sun cusping libra with leo and libra energy. Those energies are also good but she used them for extreme bad and caused alot of bad heartache to my uncle. and for some reason there was alot of tragedy in the family. her son died of car accident young and her daughter died when she was only 7 years old. her husband and her were estranged and she cheated on him, on top of being a gambler and felon. sigh. It was a tragic life. She ended up dying from covid in her 60s.
sadly i was thinking...could karma have caught up and caused such havoc to her family when they are innocent but they are caught up in her bad karma? I've been watching alot of south korean films and sometimes me and my husband go through phases of horror tv shows, then detective shows, and action tv shows, then now we are on a south korean fix. There's alot of good films and tv series there. Many of them talk about karmic backlash and how if you are bad person your descendents will also carry the long wound of bad karma and someone has to break it with good deeds. with many man good deeds and it's gonna be hard, because life is hard.
somtimes i think that scorpio 8th has alot of karma from past lives, and i did read that 8th/scorpio is the energy that can break it because of their power.