intense sexual energy
So, I have always been aware that I exude sexual, creative and passionate energy. And I don't like that... why?
I am a people person, I love people even though they hurted me immensely. I love making new connections and I look to myself as a popular person..to men, mostly..
My problem is, that every man I meet wants to be with me (sexually for the most part, when it comes to relationship they run away from me). And that really hinders me, because mostly I don't want them and then it becomes awkward. The worst thing for me is that when I am with my girl friends all eyes are constantly on me. And this is what pains me the most because girls really don't like me and I so want girls around me but they are always jelaous of me and I really want to stop this...+ I am afraid I look like some hoe in their eyes...but I truly don't do nothing... they just want me and it is awkward, creepy and disgusting to me...( is it venus conjunct mars, leo asc, scorpio sun idk)
So, if someone would be willing to look into my natal I would gladly paste it here. I really want some solutions, or how to end this...tons of men in my life who lust over me, even though we are friends and all girl friends just vanishing...
Maybe it doesn't have to do anything with astrology but I figured it would be a good thing to start a thread here.
Help is appreciated,
If you post your chart. I'm sure someone(s) will weigh in.
here it is
I really want some solutions, or how to end this...tons of men in my life who lust over me, even though we are friends and all girl friends just vanishing...
I don't think you will be able to end it, though eventually, you'll age out. Venus conjunct Mars in Sagittarius looks like a lot of fun, outside of your Scorpio and Pluto at the bottom of your chart. Sexy, fun with a pretty vibe. Hell yes, you'll get attention.
As for other women being threatened, if you want to have female friends, it will be up to you to see that you're very careful to never engage their men. They have to TRUST you and it may not come easy. If you expect them to do this work... well, it probably won't happen.
You pretty have to decide what you really value. Friendship of women or attention from their men?
If you're really creeped out, I would consider avoiding gatherings with men who are going to act like this. And not all men do this!
Just make sure you're not flirting, subconsciously or otherwise. This may sound old-fashioned, I don't know. But it's a home truth.
My husband and I considered moving to South America at one point. "Do you think I'd get along okay?"
"Yes! You'd get a long fine, so long as you have your own man."
If you were taught otherwise, you were probably taught wrong and it's easy to see this.
Just imagine being on a date with a man you really love and care for. Then here some gal, she's prettier than you. She starts flirting with your date. Your blood boils.
Are you going to befriend her? I doubt it.
Your chart takes the cake for this kind of magnetic attraction. Wow.
I think unless you suppress yourself, you’re gonna get this type of attention. You don’t want to suppress yourself I assume. That won’t feel good, because you want to have fun. I don’t know how you dress or how you do your makeup etc, but you could alter it a bit to seem more demure. You could befriend other females who are equally or almost equally attractive? This is limiting, and I wouldn’t do it myself, but people do this kind of thing all the time. Some people choose their friends based on smarts, for example, or status or whatever. You could also try focusing more of your attention on the women rather than the men when in the company of both.
It’s a good thing you recognize this. And as Elsa said, eventually you’ll age out of it. I still haven’t aged out of it though and I’m almost 40. I never had other mom friends. For a long time I thought it was because I was younger than most of them with a child my age. But now I wonder if they shunned me because they felt threatened. Though I’m a hermit and most of the time don’t care if I’m around people or not.
It is true that not all men act like that. Although it probably doesn’t matter much if women feel you’re a threat anyway. I’m not sure, honestly. Sorry you have to go through this. Your chart is off the charts with passionate energy.
You age out of it post menopause, basically. And certainly post your 2nd Saturn return.
This is in real life, not Hollywood fakery life.