How does a Sagittarius end a relationship? How do you know you’ve lost their interest, for good?
Bump! I'd like to know the answer to this
I only dated one a long time and a different state ago. I broke up with him because he was a momma’s boy and he would tell stupid lies for no reason. Or he just didn’t remember we had a date so he made up a story. Anyway, I was annoyed, he was late, I drove up next to him when he finally arrived and told him I was done and he just said, ok.
lol Fine with me, too.
That’s my story, and sorry I can’t tell the Sagittarius side of it. I’m Aquarius.
I left. In running shoes. They would have stayed. NO! Def a momma's boy. She is right. Def a liar. She is right. 100 people in my back yard every weekend. NOPE.
The women are awesome. I have Sag girlfriends and had awesome Sag clients.
I left both. Had a very hard time escaping both of those nightmares. One fought me for 10 years. (The first one) The other refused to be served divorce papers for a year and a half. After I divorced the 2nd one, he called my job for 5 years until the owner of the company called his. Sag men stalk me. It's gross.
I dk how they break up. I left.
I as a Scorpio was able to maintain a relationship the 1st one for 10 years the 2nd one for 8! I should have been given an award. I could call any Sag I have dealt with today, and they would take me back. NO!
I'm Scorpio.
I haven't got a clue how Sags break up. Mine wafted around so long, unable to commit to even a single meeting, and I got tired and left.
Last time I saw him, he was engaged, to a Scorpio, and I thought 'good luck, girl, you're gonna need it'.
@plutolover This! A guy I knew had Venus in Sag, & this was his MO. I took it as a sign that he was not serious about commitment, & just half-assing it, which for my Libra, is a cardinal sin. So in the end, I left for good! (guess what- I have mars sq jupiter)
I wanted to know because I'm dealing with a Sag w/ a Capricorn Moon/Venus. We went on a date and it was nice. I helped them paint their kitchen the same day and thought of it as a way to bond more through an activity and to show that I was very interested in them (I'm a Cancer).
After that we chatted for a few days. I said I wanted to see them again and they said they'll let me know when they're free.
Then they kind of disappeared.. until today. I texted and brought up something we did that reminded me of them and said hope they were okay (cause I hadn't heard from them in like 2 days) only because I saw they posted something on social media, but never responded to the last text before they disappeared.
They said the past days have been crazy. I asked if everything was okay and they responded everything is fine now. I told them I was there if they wanted to talk about it and if they ever needed any thing, I'm here for them and I just got a dry "thanks!"
So I think I'm just going to let that connection drift away on it's own axis. Guess I bored them which is fine. I don't have time for the guessing & cat and mouse games anyway.
@ridingthewaves That sounds a lot like a ten year interaction I had with one. Every time I thought was the last time but he would withdraw after every single meeting and then pop up out of nowhere after months and when I would act hesitant he would say “I know I’m not good enough for you”. What a mind fuck. I’m like, dude, you ran away! After ten years I’d decided I’d had enough and didn’t respond when he reached out and probably is telling a story to himself that I rejected him. Sadge is my 12th house, so I felt like that was a lot of the reason.
PS: I think my water stuff was too too clingy for his ways and he definitely did not meet my needs for security.
@libra-noir Ah, see, I don't have time for that! That's too confusing and he sounds like he was a bit of a gaslighter. Sorry you had to go through that!
I have so many water planets so I definitely understand about needing security and also turning a bit *clingy*. I also love my space though. My Cancer is all in the 9H so I definitely need to love from a distance at times, but other times, I need communication and quality time.